The importance of a kiss...
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Posted:Aug 3, 2019 10:28 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2019 9:40 pm
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Some girls really suck kissing...I mean they are terrible it.
They purse their lips tight as a frogs ass and its like kissing the back of a refrigerator magnet.
Is this a thing girls do because they really don't want to kiss? I mean, I never force a girl to kiss me, and likewise wouldn't kiss a girl without truly believing she wanted me to.
Its not like every kiss has to have tongue. but if we've gotten to the point of kissing, relax, soften those lips, and lets both enjoy it.
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What really counts is...
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Posted:Aug 18, 2018 9:18 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 1:43 am
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For years, the media has been telling us what is sexy and what isn't. And public response about how models are photo-shopped and surgically altered to look unrealistically beautiful has created outrage.
Women have long been critical of guys who only look for that superficial beauty, and yet when we see real beauty in someone who is not photo-shopped, or superficial, we get ignored because not all of us are Chippendale models.
It goes both ways ladies...You want us to admire the real you....well you have to be ready to appreciate the reality in us as well. We are no more perfect and just as human. So if you are fishing for compliments, be ready to get compliments from people just like you, imperfect, and flawed as we are, who need the same validation you seek.
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So I get this message on SnapChat....
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Posted:Aug 13, 2018 9:14 am
Last Updated:Aug 3, 2019 9:32 pm
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So I get this notification from a girl. Not a total stranger, but not exactly an ex-Girlfriend. Totally Platonic, although I might have been open to more....we just didn't mutually pursue a relationship.
We had been social media friends before, but she dropped off for a while. The notification on SnapChat is that she added me by username. I responded....
"Hey How has life been treating you"
Her: "Horrid"
me: "oh no, sorry to hear"
Without being nosey, I let her know that I am here for her if she wants to talk, and she thanks me.
Then nothing for a few hours.
I send her a few fun snaps to cheer her up....totally G-rated stuff....just a few positive affirmations, dogs being funny and a few jokes....
then....she removes me as a friend so we can't chat anymore. I can still follow her snaps.
It almost makes me wonder if a jealous boyfriend took over her phone. but even if it was her conscious decision to remove me as a friend...why add me in the first place?
Seriously, its social media....if you aren't going to be social, get the fuck off.
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You were so right...
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Posted:May 3, 2016 6:06 pm
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2018 8:44 am
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An open letter to all the girls I knew as a young (and metaphorically all the girls who used these lame "unfuckable" excuses):
When I was young,, I would take the time to get to know a girl I liked, whether it was a crush, or outright obvious that I had an interest in her. I really tried to show an interest in them. I gave them my full attention, learned their interests, spoke to them from the heart. My quest to find romance always ended with the words like the following phrases:
"You are such a good friend"
"You don't deserve someone like me"
"I have a friend that would really like you"
"one of these days, you are going to make someone else really happy"
Yeah, these were deliberate comments meant to diffuse any possibility of having a romantic relationship. But, what all of you didn't realize is that every one of those statements was precisely accurate.
I was a very good and loyal friend, whom you took for granted
I really didn't deserve someone like you, because you were too fucked up to realize that you didn't deserve me.
And yeah, I met your friend, and they really did like me, and became a better friend than you were capable of.
And yes, one day, I did make someone really happy. It was someone who saw me for who I am, and wasn't concerned that I wasn't on the football team, or from a rich family.
I've seen how many of you have grown up. I've watched as the years of bad decisions and emotional torment have wrecked your lives and destroyed you.
Thank you for your great advice.
You really saved me from dodging a bullet. I'm not bitter, just thankful.
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Just a short rant on the site's features, nothing to see here.
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Posted:Jan 9, 2016 1:15 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 1:43 am
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What's with the tipping?
Seriously, this site went from a personals site to ppv porn.
I used to check out webcams for the social aspect, now it's nothing but folks who don't want to chat and hold up signs that say "Tips Please"
Way to turn a social feature into a back alley house...
Also, I recently updated my profile. What I said was little more than a re-iteration of one of the questions you can answer in your basic profile. As a result, I got a notice that my profile was banned for controversial language.
Lets bring it home now shall we? Instant messenger is a pay per view house, and there is nothing at all controversial about that, but I can't mention something that I was asked by the site when I created my account? (Regarding Recreational Drug use)
Recreational is now legal where I live. And it is a very social thing to do, so why can't it be brought up? Does it offend the "Tip Whores" ?
Peace.
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Who's kidding whom here?
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Posted:Jan 3, 2015 9:59 am
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2019 9:12 am
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If you refuse to interact with someone just because they didn't send you a picture then you need to get a grip on reality. You are on the internet so don't use the excuse "I want to know who I am talking to" That is bullshit. You don't know someone just by looking at their picture.
Need I point out how daffy it is to get on a social site and act anti-social? If you are looking for excuses not to interact with people on a site that is designed for interaction, then perhaps you should re-evaluate your reason for being here.
If I send you a message that I would like to get to know you, it's typically because I have read your profile, and for whatever reason I find you interesting.
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Second life in Southern Oregon
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Posted:Dec 4, 2014 11:28 am
Last Updated:Aug 3, 2019 9:32 pm
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So I finally decided to start my blog. I have a history of blog rot so we'll see how long this lasts.
A Second life, or, another part of my life that is separate from the rest of my life.
That is all you should see of me here. That part I keep away from the rest of my life.
I live in a small town. As in most small towns, people make your business, their business. They can be nosy and judgmental. Given my social situation, I intentionally keep most of my life separate from this one, and it has its drawbacks. I hide my identity not just to protect myself, but those who are close to me. They have no knowledge of what I do here because its none of their business.
My wife is a slightly different case. She has given me permission to seek sexual satisfaction outside of our relationship but does not want to be involved and does not want to know when it happens. Yes, she wants plausible deniability. She and I have a very loving relationship, but for reasons unique to her, she does not have any interest in sex. She does want me to be able to have sexual enjoyment though and has encouraged me to pursue it.
The original idea was for me to find a 20 something. Having reached out on this site for a while I can see that the 20 somethings here who CLAIM to be looking for someone my age are usually those who have some other agenda. Typically this means money or drugs. Edit: I will caveat this with the fact that there are a few who do not have this agenda, but just can't make the time. I did not mean for this to seem like a blanket statement on all girls in their 20s on this site.
So girls closer to my age then? there are a few, but they are suspicious of my privacy. many portray themselves as promiscuous and adventurous and then get offended when I so much as introduce myself. Jesus, you'd think they were in high school by the way they act.
Years ago I was in the US Military, and I had some experience with the "Buy me a drink" bars. They exist primarily in the vicinity of military bases and there are women who you can buy a "special drink" that is a non-alcoholic single serving of champagne. for this, you get a small amount of attention from her and if you buy enough of these very expensive grape juice bottles, you might be lucky enough to get a hand job. That is what some of these girls remind me of.
So the most I can expect to get from this site is a handful of casual connections that won't amount to much. Who knows, maybe I will get lucky.
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