Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. I like to have friends who I can get physical with. When I go out, I might hang out at the bookstore, or just go wherever. On Sunday afternoons I like to take things easy, getting ready for the work week ahead. I've always been good at making decisions on the fly, and making it look easy. When I'm out driving I like to see the sights along the backroads. I look forward to seeing how the online dating world works. If you contact me please give me some time to reply as I'm pretty busy. I'm not changing my life, I'm just trying to make it more interesting.

My Ideal Person I am interested in meeting a woman closer to my age. Basically seeking friends with benefits. I have been separated for more than a year but want to be discrete because I have shared custody of two boys. I am not un-happy on my own, but a little action now and again would be a nice thing. I have skills as a masseuse with strong sensitive hands. I would like to give a full body massage with a "happy ending" at least a few times a month. I am not looking for anything to develop into a long term exclusive relationship, but could go there if it seemed right. I don't mind being one of a number of man friends, if that is your way, but I am not looking to be side action for a married/commited woman as I believe that to be un-fair to the other partner.