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Yet another stupid addition to this site!
Posted:Jul 14, 2011 10:37 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2012 2:14 pm
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WHY has LesbianPersonals started putting "Explicit Photo" on the pictures of members that show up in my "Alerts"? Isn't that what this site is all about, explicit photos and sex and seeing each other's sex organs?! Of course, this first popped up AFTER I gave a less than positive "grade" on the site's pop up survey. Just one more reason I'm not renewing once my current membership is up.
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Same old Current On-line Matches...
Posted:May 31, 2011 2:08 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2011 10:33 am
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Has anybody else noticed that your "Current On-line Matches" section always shows the same members? Day in, day out, month after month, the same members show up as my "current on-line matches". And many of those members are no more matches to me that is a lawnmower. With the supposed 34, 753, 396 over all site members, and, at least at this moment, the 106,896 members currently logged in, shouldn't there be a much larger variety of "current on-line matches" that are shown? Maybe the site needs to have it's techs come up with some sort of "revolving" match aspects to it's match programming. All I know is if these same old "current on-line matches" keep coming up by the time my current paid membership ends, I'm not going to pay for renewing.
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Thanks to LesbianPersonals!!!
Posted:Mar 6, 2011 9:03 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2012 2:15 pm
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My thanks to LesbianPersonals for taking care of a big problem I had. The problem I had was that during the last month 2 different guys asked me for money once we broached the subject of getting together. I'm a fairly good looking guy who's pretty fit, nice thick cock that works as good as new, a nice guy overall, successful, etc. that has never even thought about having to pay for sex, let alone actually doing it. Anyway, after the 2nd guy propositioned me, I got mad and contacted LesbianPersonals. It took them only a few hours to remove these prostitutes from the site.

As a paying member of over 5 years, LesbianPersonals still seems to care about those of us who pay to be on this site. Generally, many of us grumble about things that don't seem to work correctly or that take what seems to be forever to get something fixed. HOWEVER, this was a much more serious problem that LesbianPersonals fixed almost instantly and I very much appreciate it! It's because of this that I am now going to renew my membership for another year once my current membership comes to and end.

Thanks again, LesbianPersonals, for taking care of this matter!
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New profile page design SUCKS!!!
Posted:Sep 22, 2010 9:09 pm
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2010 7:44 am
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Yet again, someone at LesbianPersonals has had too much time on their hands and has designed another AWFUL new profile page "update". It's clunky. It's doesn't read well. It's NOT an improvement. My question to the site is "change is fine WHEN IT IS AN IMPROVEMENT" so why try yet another crappy "update"? I think this time I really WON'T renew my membership.
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Vastly shrinking memberships?!
Posted:Feb 23, 2010 8:27 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 1:54 am
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I've noticed over the last 3 to 4 weeks that fewer and fewer memberships are current. In the groups I'm involved with, in searching members profiles, and even in the "new members photos" and other site featured areas, more and more of the profile are of people who have let their memberships go, as well as not being on site for over 3 months. Is this site actually becomming irrevelant and not worth renewing memberships? What's you're opinion about this? Have you noticed? Several of the groups I'm active in have dropped to only 25 or so active members down from 500 or 800 members average only a couple of months ago. If so many members are leaving this site, is it really worth re-upping for another paid membership? My membership is up for renewal in July but I'm not seeing so many members dropping out and not renewing. And more profiles I check out are those of people who haven't been on site for over 3 months. I have a feeling that there is a lot fewer paying members on this site that the site shows. Anybody else feeling this way? Let me know!
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Found new interest here on LesbianPersonals by . . .
Posted:Sep 29, 2009 9:40 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2011 10:21 am
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I've found new interest here on LesbianPersonals by getting actively involved in a couple of groups.

I've recently become the Associate Group Moderator of the group "Straight Guys who suck cocks". It's a great group with a lot of really nice guys. Basically for "straights" who like the concept of sucking cocks, we also have bi and gays who are members as well as straight guys who enjoy getting sucked and don't care who sucks them as long as it feels good and gets them off. If you have some spare time, come check out the group!

I'm also having a great time with the group "Men With Thick Cocks". I've had one of the most popular posts there for over a year. It's a great group with great guys (and ladies, too). Check it out, too!

These two groups have given me a new interest here on LesbianPersonals. So, I'll remain a Gold Member for at least another 6 months.

It's good to have a good time on site again.
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Are we wasting our time?
Posted:Jul 11, 2009 11:55 am
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2022 5:18 pm
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Do you ever feel like you are throwing money away on all these "sex/social/dating" sites? There are times I feel I'm throwing my money away and during this time of economic belt tightening, I've been thinking about cutting back (expecially with the problems I've been having with this site).

I've actually met (in person) one exceptional person with whom I've developed a nice friendship with benefits with . . . as well as meeting a couple of other nice guys. There have also been several guys who have made plans to meet but have backed out. All in all, I'm not that dissatisfied with my results BUT when you hold the results up to what I've spend since November '05 to be a member, I'm beginning to wonder if it's worth it. Of course, if I had to go out to bars or other places to be able to meet a nice guy, I'd probably have spent a lot more on drinks and gas, etc! But still . . .

Just wondering what other members are thinking? Have you also been wondering if it's worth it or not? How many people have you actually met in person? Have they become a friend or somewhat regular part of your life? How many people have backed out on you? Do you feel you're getting your money's worth (and think about any problems and headaches you've had with this site's ongoing troubles)?

Don't know if anybody really reads my blog posts but thought I'd throw this out there to find out if anybody else has similar thoughts.
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Backdoor into the site . . . what a way to get what we pay for!
Posted:Jun 27, 2009 2:14 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 1:54 am
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Well, after a couple of months of increasing problems with the site under it's various names of LesbianPersonals, SwapFinder, and Passion - leading me to decide NOT to renew once my membership is up and then to delete my profile - I have discovered a way to actually be able to use these sites to their fullest.

To do this, I have to go to a web search engine such as Bing or Dogpile or Yahoo, etc. and type in my profile name, then click search. The search engines come up with various parts of my activity here such as "tackman57 blog" or "tackman57 group posts", that sort of thing. I click on one and up pops a "sign in" page. I click the "member login" box and UP POPS MY HOME PAGE!!!

Each time I've done this, I've checked all the various functions that haven't worked over the last couple of months and surprise, surprise . . . everything works.

Funny thing is, if I try typing the various site web addresses in the http window to go directly to the various site versions, I get the old "site not available" notice and won't be able to access the site. Sure makes you wonder why, doesn't it?!
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Anybody else having this trouble with SwapFinder/Passion/LesbianPersonals?
Posted:May 21, 2009 8:11 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2012 2:15 pm
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I'm continuing to have problems with getting on site. For the last several days, when I try to log on I get this message . . .

Internet Explorer cannot display the webpage

Most likely causes:
You are not connected to the Internet.
The website is encountering problems.
There might be a typing error in the address.

What you can try:
*Diagnose Connection Problems
*More information

. . . this happens when I try to log on to Passion.com or Passion.com It also happens when I try to log on to SwapFinder's automatic log in page UNLESS I click on "member log" and get a different log in page.

I think with the amount of money we members pay for access to this site and it's variations, the people servicing this site should be able to keep it accessible to them!

Worse yet, I reported this problem to SwapFinder two days ago and got this response last night late . . .

Dear Member,

Thank you for contacting us.

We would like to apologize for any inconvenience our site outage caused you this afternoon. All issues have been resolved as of this time.

Once again, we apologize for any inconvenience this has caused and thank you for your patience while we resolved this issue.

If you have any questions, please feel free to send us another email.

Thank you,

Sonny L.
SwapFinder Billing Support

. . . all I have to say about this response is WHAT THE FUCK IS SOMEONE FROM BILLING SUPPORT CONTACTING ME INSTEAD OF SOMEONE WHO IS CAPABLE OF FIXING THIS PROBLEM?! TYPICAL OF THIS SITE AND ITS TOTAL LACK OF CONCERN FOR IT'S CUSTOMERS!!! I DON'T WANT TO HEAR FROM SONNY L. OR ANYONE ELSE FROM BILLING SUPPORT, I WANT TO HEAR FROM THE TECHS WHOSE JOB IT IS TO KEEP THIS SITE WORKING!!!

I don't think this is too much to ask for what I pay!

I'm posting this several places on this site including my blog so other members can see it. Maybe if I make enough noise and get enough attention, someone from this site - other than Sonny L. in Billing Support - will take notice!
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Are you out there?
Posted:Mar 7, 2009 8:48 pm
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2016 2:20 pm
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Are you out there? I've been looking for you for so long. It seems no matter where I look or how hard I search, you're not there. Are you out there?

Are you out there? Have we just missed each other? Have we been like ships that pass in the night? Are we just missing each other as one of us goes through one door as the other passes through another? Are you out there?

Are you out there? My heart is so empty and so full at the same time. It needs to be filled with your love. It needs to empty itself with my love for you. Is your heart needing to do the same? Are you out there?

Are you out there? Could you even be alive? Has something already taken you from me before we've even met? Has some quirk of fate made it impossible for us to be to meet . . . let alone be together? Are you out there?

Are you out there? I keep looking for you. I keep faith we'll meet. I keep hope that you're looking for me, too. Are you out there?

Are you out there?
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What smell turns you on?
Posted:Jan 4, 2009 10:12 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2009 4:27 pm
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I just read a man questioning his getting turned on over the smell of vinegar. If find it very interesting and can understand how he could get turned on to vinegar.

I've been thinking about what smell turns me on. I'm not sure I can isolate one particular odor that gets me going. There are a couple of colognes that attract me without my thinking about them. The smell of a freshly showered man with no other colognes or products turns me on (I'm gay). I'll keep thinking about it and update this thread if I get a clearer picture.

Anyway, I was wondering about all of you . . . what smell (or smells) turns you on? I'm really interested to know!

Happy New Year!
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Wishing everyone Happy Holidays . . . all of them!!!
Posted:Dec 22, 2008 5:48 pm
Last Updated:Jan 2, 2009 9:04 am
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I hope everyone has a Happy Holiday season no matter which holiday you're observing. It's a time for family and friends and I hope all of you will have someone to spend this time of the year with, even if it's just to spend some "quality time" together! I'll spend time with family for Christmas and friends for New Years.

And while we're at it, let's hope for a wonderful AND BETTER new year! In real life, my "special relationship" with my former co-worker ended this year when he moved across country to make a better life so I'm unattached again. Here on site, I'm looking forward to finally meeting many of my Friends Network members in person! Since my personal life is free again, my time is my own! I love cross-country driving so I'll be doing some serious car trips. I'm also planning some major trips overseas IF the economy regains some strength! I'm looking to visit Australia/New Zealand as well as the U.K. (don't know if any more of Europe will be included this time around).

Of course, if we've not "met" yet, send me a message! I'm looking to make new friends . . . particularily single men and male couples. I'd also like to meet and have fun with male/female couples since I have a great time being the "third wheel" in a m/f couple IF the man is bi or bi-curious!

Again, Happy Holidays!!!
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Take a chance! You might just get what you want!
Posted:Dec 27, 2007 12:40 am
Last Updated:Dec 22, 2008 5:49 pm
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A while back, I posted a couple of entries that I'd discovered a co-worker's profile on this site, complete with explicit nude & erection photos. Thrilled as I was, I knew I didn't have a chance in hell with him. As nice a guy as he is, the guy is straight as an arrow & quite a bit younger than me. I didn't approach him at work due to the now easy potential for sexual harrassment charges (or worse in our small community, exposure). I messaged him here on site, then left kudos for him but didn't hear back. But he didn't block me from seeing his excellent nude photos. After I contacted him, at work, he seemed to smile at me more than usual, talked to me more than he had, & started sitting next to me at our weekly staff meetings. Then, right before I was to leave my position, his profile abruptly disappeared, supposedly shut off. I figured he finally blocked me out. However, I found out from him last weekend, that he'd had to shut off his profile since someone else had recognized him & tipped off our employer he was on "swappers sex site" (he made the mistake including two face pics, one in a full body erection pic - a stupid thing to do in ultra-conservative, isolated, small-town Garden City/SW Kansas!). Fortunately, he got his profile turned off before our employer could find it. In addition, he was using his work computer to access this site early in the morning as well as his own personal computer after work. Again, he was able to get his work computer's history cleared out before he got caught. I ran into him last weekend while doing some last minute shopping & got the scoop from him over coffee. Not only that, he gave me a big surprise. He said he knew from my first contact that it was me & my contact made him consider finally trying out man2man sex since he knew me & knew I was safe & healthy. So, last Friday I got an EXCELLENT early Christmas "gift" from him spending the day in bed together. I couldn't believe the stamina this 31 year old physical trainer has in bed! And he was game to try everything we both could think of, in lots of positions, in several rounds of hot, sweaty, exploritory sex! Surprisingly, he really loved it all! Gotta say his pics didn't do justice to his amazing, naked 6'2" muscled frame & 9 1/4" long cut cock (I measured it!) with the fat dickhead! We spent a second day together today. He had some specific things he wanted to do again, i.e. he loves: french kissing, having his muscled body licked & worshiped, & fucking a man's ass AND getting his muscled ass fucked! I'm worn out, front & back...but thrilled!. Best of all, he wants to get together regularily a couple of times a week. We even talked about him possibly asking a lady he's met on this site & fucked a couple of times to join in when I mentioned that I'd love to see him fuck a woman in person upclose (& maybe join in). That idea turned him on so much we had to have an extra round! I haven't had that much sex in one day since the 80's! He's going to try to set something up with her for this weekend. Anyway, it just proves that "you never know!" So, for this new year, my advice for anyone reading this is to contact ANYONE you might be interested in - no matter how much a long shot they might be - because you might just get what you want. Happy New Year!!!
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