New Toy Tried Out + Hickey
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Posted:Mar 30, 2012 7:25 am
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2012 7:01 am
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Met up with the fuddy tonight for the usual 2 hour session.
He definitely is getting better. strangely, banging feels better when he wears condom. going raw honestly is more for the guy. not sure about other gals, but i dont really feel the difference between
going raw and condoms. in fact, i think condoms feel better.
we tried out the new toy he bought for me (see below post for pic). its so huge. it barely fits half into me. couldnt fit in the whole thing. the vibration and wiggle function is good though. felt like squirting when it was moving in and out fast. but i didnt. i think as an experiment, i will try it out one day at home and see if indeed squirting is possible
i came home after a school meeting and saw my mum. my mum was like "whats that on ur neck"
i brushed it off and changed the topic. but when i saw the mirror, i realised that it was a hickey! first one i have had!
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In Response to "Be Warned" Post Comments
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Posted:Mar 25, 2012 8:26 am
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2012 3:31 am
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yes yes , i know this is a sex site. and i love and need/want sex as much as the next guy or gal.
however, this being a sex site does not give anyone the right to treat gals here like whores. like hen_peck said, if you want whores, let me direct you to the right places for that.
many guys here EXPECT sex. and that is what i dont like. just because i respond to their email or IM, they expect that we meet up straight away and have sex.
if you read my previous posts, which is basically 80% of my 80+ posts, it gives you specific examples of how lousy guys treat the gals here in order to get sex.
and honestly, i dont expect much from the guys. 99% of the time, if i meet guys from LesbianPersonals, i myself ask for sex straightaway. i dont want any dinner/coffee. i just expect to be treated like a decent human being. not even to be treated like a gal but just a human being.
do guys really think they can get sex just cos they ask or by being a jerk?
if i have sex with every guy whom i have talked to from LesbianPersonals cos he wanted it, i would have had sex with 500+ guys.
like i said, at least whores get paid
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Be Warned!
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Posted:Mar 24, 2012 11:30 pm
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2012 8:27 am
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I have very little patience for LesbianPersonals guys now.
Last year, I was nice enough to talk to almost every guy that emailed / IMed me. I was nice enough to last till the end of the conversation.
However, from now onwards, if you start talking about having sex within 10 minutes of talking to me. I will be ruthless.
You have been warned!
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Today is my Birthday :(
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Posted:Mar 21, 2012 9:31 am
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2012 5:47 am
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22nd March 1988 is my birthday.
errr but i absolutely hate my own birthday. i dont consider it a good day. and usually every year in March, i get emo and prefer to be alone.
Why? cos since i was 13 years old, i would always be the one planning birthday parties/gatherings/outings for friends. I would plan for every single close friend in my circle of friends at that point in my life. then when it came to my birthday, nothing. not that i expect anything. but there wasnt even any birthday wishes.
and my mum would ask where i want to eat for my birthday and in the end she would choose where she wants to go.
this year, my birthday would be to go for my part time job in the morning, give tuitions in the afternoon and class at night. yipee!
but ah well, nevertheless, i am thankful for my family and friends.
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Staycation with the Fuddy
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Posted:Mar 20, 2012 11:37 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2012 1:13 am
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We booked a hotel called Porcelain Hotel at Chinatown for last night. i definitely recommend this hotel for anyone who is looking to stay at a hotel in Singapore. the interior design in this hotel is really unique and something i really like.
last night was the best sex i had with him. i mentioned previously that it was strangely hard for me to cum with him with the average being 0-1 time with him. but last night, i came 4 times.
he bought a few things that we used last night. he bought this cock ring which vibrated and it felt good for me. he also wore a ribbed condom. his first time wearing a condom, which he thought felt better as he does not have the pain of the foreskin pulling back with the condom.
but now, ironically, it is hard for him to cum too. the past few times, he was not able to cum via sex. he only cums when he jerks himself off. i think cos he masturbated so much in his lifetime that his cock is too used to his hands and can only cum via that means.
he bought me an early birthday present last night which in the end we didnt use. but i'm sure we would use it in the next session. but gosh, its so big! never had such a big one before. and i tested it out. it vibrates AND wiggles! haha
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Skinny Gal without Boobs vs Non-Skinny Gal with Boobs
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Posted:Mar 19, 2012 10:02 am
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2012 9:58 pm
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i did a poll a few posts back. thanks for all your votes and comments!
now that it has reached 500 votes, i think it is a decent sample size to comment on.
and based on the comments, i know that obviously there are other factors involved in liking a gal or wanting her in bed. but the question forces you to choose which one you prefer.
67% voted that they prefer the Non-Skinny Gal with Boobs which is pretty comforting to me since i am a Non-Skinny Gal with Boobs.
However, I feel that if i polled only Singaporean or even Asian men, the results would be the total opposite. Because gals in Singapore are usually flat-chested, i guess the guys here have adapted to it and their preferences are more for nice butt/nice legs/skinny gals.
this preference is so prevalent in our society that any gal outside these norms is considered ugly or not someone they would want to have.
when guys on LesbianPersonals ask me how i look like, i bluntly tell them that i dont look great. they reply that i should be more confident. but i dont think its about confidence. i am just being realistic.
in fact, despite the results of this poll, i still think i rather be a Skinny Gal without Boobs than a Non-Skinny Gal with Boobs.
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Rules of a Fuddy
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Posted:Mar 18, 2012 9:50 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2012 7:05 am
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This was something I did up together with the first guy i was involved in when i had intentions of starting a fuddy lifestyle.
Of course, for rules of a fuddy, there aren't any universal rules per se. The rules, if any, would have to be agreed upon by both parties. and the rules are dependent on what a fuddy is defined for them. Below were my rules with him:
Rules of a Fuddy
1. One must pleasure and be pleasured
2. One must maintain utmost secrecy
3. One must tell the other if one is attached
4. One must cum
5. One must be honest with the other
6. One must not record/video/photograph
7. One must split all costs
8. One must maintain both aspects of a “Fuddy”. Should the “F” part fail, the buddy will remain. Should the buddy part fail, so will the “F”.
9. One must forfeit the “F” once attached but must maintain the buddy. But, the “F” will continue once out attachment.
10. One must abide by these rules
If any of you are thinking of having any rules, I hope this would be a good starting point for you.
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Late Night out at the Beach
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Posted:Mar 17, 2012 10:03 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2012 7:04 am
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Had another good night with the fuddy.
we first watched the movie, John Carter. For those interested to know whether the movie was good, yup i would say it is a good movie. Though the first part was a little boring, but i guess they had to build up and establish the story. it got pretty good after that. decent effects and a 2 hour long movie filled with some funny moments making it worth the price. there is a hot male lead and a hot female lead so there is something for everyone.
anyway, so after that, we headed to Changi Beach and hung out there till about 4am.
there was a nice sea breeze with the peaceful noise of waves crashing onto the sand.holding hands, cuddling and kissing. feels good. haha i really enjoy having all the physical benefits of a guy.
ok, before you all get the wrong idea, i absolutely do not want a boyfriend. and based on my previous posts, i am perfectly contented never having a boyfriend or getting married. and contrary to popular stereotype of gals, my feelings rarely get involved in a fuddy relationship.
But still, the physical benefits are always nice to have. fortunately, i will be able to enjoy it everyday for a month on my US trip!
oh, and for those who want to know, the furthest we went on the beach was a bj
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Sleepover!
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Posted:Mar 15, 2012 10:57 am
Last Updated:Mar 16, 2012 1:16 pm
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my family was overseas for a few days, leaving me with an empty house, save for my maid.
so the fuddy came over the house to stay overnight. it is really nice to have another body beside you when you sleep, better if it is another naked body. to have somebody to hold you and cuddle as you fall asleep.
we went to bed at 4am but didnt sleep much and woke up at 12pm. haha what a good way to sleep in!
such nights, i guess, would be how it would be like every night in USA for a month!
something that i have noticed about my past two fuddies and this one which makes them awesome is on top of the fact that they love to cuddle in bed, there would also be the playing of hands in bed.
fuddies, to me at least, is not only for sex. it is for all the physical benefits of having a man in bed.
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Posted:Mar 14, 2012 8:20 am
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hey guys,
thanks for your kind IMs and emails saying nice things about my blog. i appreciate it much.
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Seriously, do I look like I care about other gals?
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Posted:Mar 12, 2012 11:24 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 8:4 am
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in a previous post, i mentioned that i was bro zoned a lot by the guys in my real (non LesbianPersonals) life. which is fine cos i love my guy friends. and as such, there always point out hot gals and sometimes i would point out the hot gals to them before they noticed the gal.
but i dont really like it when the LesbianPersonals guys do it. its really really annoying. i have been keeping quiet about it and acting as if i'm some cool chick that is ok with it. but i need to rant about it.
1) guys who ask me to introduce them to girls for them. do i look like a or matchmaker to you? go find your own gal. why in the world would i be talking to gals on this site
2) guys who ask for other gals to be in bed with us. hello, dude, do i ask for other guys to be in bed with us? u are repulsed at the idea of another guy in bed and i cant be repulsed by the idea of another gal in the bed?
3)guys who tell/show me gals they want to bonk - be it celebrities or gals on the street. i hate this especially when the guy and i are having sexual relations. if those gals are the one you want to bonk, then you definitely don't need me. so good bye!
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Interesting Article:Lives and voices of highly sexual women
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Posted:Mar 11, 2012 9:14 am
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2012 12:17 pm
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[this is an article i came across online]
The best studies are sex studies 1: Lives and voices of highly sexual women
This post is the first in a series I’m going to do looking at some study or other that I’ve come across. I can’t promise timeliness – today’s study is close to a decade old – but I will actually read the darn thing. Like, the actual journal article, not the press release or the Daily Mail distillation.
So, let’s get to it, shall we?
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When you’re a highly sexual woman, I think you generally don’t get to talk as freely with girlfriends about sex, men, and relationships as other women do. There are dozens of little things to worry about. Will they think you’re pathetic/slutty/boastful/deluded/going to come on to their partner? &c.
Oftentimes, you can talk to men about these things, but then there’s another set of concerns. Or just one concern: that they will misinterpret your frequent desire to jump into bed as a desire to jump into bed with them, specifically. This can be awkward. Conversely, if you do want to jump into bed with someone, specifically, casually mentioning how much you love fucking is a clever seduction trick.
Anyhow, it was with this general wish to share and identify in mind that I googled, the other day, “highly sexual women” and “research”. I loooove research, so I’m not sure why looking for this had never occured to me before.
The study
What I found was a wonderful 2003 paper by Eric S. Blumenthal, “The Lives and Voices of Highly Sexual Women”. It’s an exploratory study, done in the USA, based on semi-structured interviews with 44 mostly white women who self-identified as ‘highly sexual’ against the criteria:
(1) You typically desire sexual stimulation, typically to the point of orgasm, with yourself or a partner, six to seven times per week or more and act upon that desire whenever possible.
And/or
(2) You think of yourself as a highly sexual woman, sex is often on your mind, and it is an aspect of yourself that strongly and frequently affects your behaviour, and quality of life satisfaction.
(As an aside, I definitely place myself in the second category, not the first. I think about sex a lot every day, but I don’t necessarily feel I need it ‘six to seven times per week’, every week.)
A central fact
Blumenthal found that the women reported their lives had been “enormously affected by, if not completely organised around, their sexuality,” and that the influence of sexuality on their lives could not be overstated. Almost all of the participants said that being highly sexual was a ‘central fact’ of their lives – one that affected their relationships, activities and life choices, and occupied a major part of their time and energy.
It’s hard to put in words just how and why it is that knowing other people have felt the same things that you is so gratifying. It’s powerful, though. No joke, I cried when I read the first issue of Filament magazine, and I felt close to it reading Blumenthal’s study.
What does it mean to have your sexuality permeating your activities and life choices so thoroughly? For me, the ways in which this happens are subtle and perhaps, from the outside, unexpected. It’s not just that I have an open relationship or go to sex parties. It’s also my hobbies and my daily routines. For example, I love sewing and fashion. I enjoy them just for themselves, but, very consciously, they serve an ultimate purpose of attracting men to me, and enhancing my feelings of sexual confidence. Another example. Every weekday lunchtime, I go out. To get lunch, yes, but also to look at men, and have them look at me, as I walk around the city.
Bad bits
Most of the women in the study had struggled with living in a society that defined them in pejorative ways, and that had “mores and belief systems” that didn’t match their own behaviours. Some struggled painfully with self-hatred, while others were just conflicted about being different, afflicted, unfeminine. Most eventually overcame these conflicts, and a small, lucky group, generally with sex-positive or sex-neutral parents, experienced little internal conflict to begin with. One even reported feeling “blessed” by her highly sexual nature. Heartwarming!
With regard to societal attitudes, the participants reported being aware of being perceived negatively, or simply presumed not to exist. It’s this invisibility, not the negativity, which annoys and interests me most, so I loved this quote from one participant:
I think the stereotypes that bother me are that women generally don’t like to have sex or don’t want it. Even on like, “Mad About You” or some sitcom where they were talking about having sex, “See, I just make my grocery list in my head, while we’re having sex.” And I thought, “That’s terrible. What kind of message is that, you think about your grocery list, while your husband is making love to you?” [laughter]
Who among us hasn’t groaned watching some stupid sitcom joke about women not liking sex? I mean, I can even think of some series in which a good two-thirds of the humour turns on this.
In terms of social interactions, the women reported some negative effects. A fascinating finding, for me, was that every one of the women repeatedly mentioned the difficulty or impossibility of gaining sexual satisfaction from just one primary relationship. Some dealt with this by having short relationships, others by having multiple concurrent relationships (n.b. my preferred coping strategy!).
The paper gave some attention to friendships with other women, which could be difficult:
Many women reported experiencing a considerable amount of accusatory, rejecting, and judgemental behaviour because of the attitudes of other women toward them, particularly female friends and peer group members.
The participants generally attributed this to discomfort arising from other women’s lack of comfort with their own sexual feelings, or to the threat of competition that highly sexual women might create. Those who had found other highly sexual female friends that they could be open with were grateful, and those who hadn’t were sad or even bitter about it.
The good bits
A majority reported that their relationships with men were very comfortable. Some described a feeling of camaraderie that rings very true to me, others reported a more flirty, bantery type of relation, and a small group said that men were often frightened by their strong sexual energy (not a problem I’ve experienced).
Many women in the study reported that their strong sexual feelings had also positively influenced their personal growth and development:
They reported learning to make conscious choices about who they were and how they would live life. Many of them reported that the introspection and personal growth required to cope successfully with the intensity of their sexual desire had ultimately produced a self-confidence and sense of individuality that then generalized to other areas of their lives.
I mean, that’s fascinating, isn’t it? Pretty much the opposite of the popular imagination’s sad slut.
And lastly, well, it’s obvious, isn’t it? Sexy pleasure!
The experience of life as a highly sexual woman was also reported to be filled with satisfactions and pleasure.
There aren’t really any good quotes on this, probably because it’s hard to describe, but the words ‘ecstasy’, ‘amazing’ and ‘rejuvenating’ featured.
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It’s just a small, exploratory piece of research, so I was surprised by how much of it was familiar to me. And so! I give this study my highly-sexual-woman seal of approval.
If you’re a highly sexual woman and you want to feel like less of a freak for fifteen minutes, or if you want to sex a highly sexual woman and think you might seduce her by understanding her (hint – alternatively, just show her your abs!) check it out here.
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Dick Sizes
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Posted:Mar 10, 2012 7:52 pm
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2012 12:25 pm
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The average Chinese guy in Singapore is between 4-6 inches
The average guy in the world is 5.5 inches
The longest ever recorded in the world is 13 inches
The smallest ever recorded in the world is 2 inches.
2 inches?! gosh, that was the size of my ex! haha
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