Over 300 messages in my first week back!
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Posted:Jan 21, 2018 10:53 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2018 12:23 pm
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According to my message center, I currently have 315 conversations since joining last week.
This is absolutely insane. I had a hunch I may get a little attention, but certainly not this much. It makes me feel a little dizzy trying to wrap my head around over 315 people messaging me for a conversation, and that not even including the instant messenger chat where even more people message me for my attention. I feel at times like I have been running a couple of miles, let me catch my breath.
[Pause for breathing...]
[Still pause...]
[....]
[Exhale]
So again, I have a lot of people trying to chat with me, and I do my best to get to as many as possible with the time I have. This is why blogs help. I may not be able to chat with everyone individually, but I at least can let you all know how I'm doing.
So please be patient with me as this has only been my first week back.
Again, I'm not looking to jump into anyone's bed just because you shared a pic, told me your name, gave your kick messenger name or phone number, and can host. I want to get comfortable knowing someone first before meeting them for just a beverage and then we can after a few more times see where things go. I'm not looking to be easy, but I'm by no mean being difficult. I'm just doing things to be safe and not regret meeting someone for a night where they were better off masturbating.
Over 315 people in one week. WOW!
And over 2,600 people viewed my profile.
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I do not support the GOP or Trump!
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Posted:Jan 21, 2018 3:46 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2018 10:41 pm
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I respect anyone's right to vote, but if you are in any way a supporter of the GOP and Trump (including everyone who works with with or for him) I kindly ask you to leave me alone until you grow up.
I have no time for bigots, racists, anti-Muslim supporters (or anti-any religion), white supremacists, xenophobic people, people who don't support a woman's right to choose (aka anti-abortion) or women's rights in general, sexists, or anyone who is so blinded by ignorance that they can't make sound moral decisions in life.
All of that is learned behavior and if this applies to you, then you have the chance to change your ways. It's not impossible and by no means a ridiculous request. The world has changed and continues to change. It's an embarrassment to be an American with such a foolish group in power praying on those who look to faith and ignorant/destructive self-righteousness before their fellow Americans or fellow human beings.
If you know someone who is like this, someone who is still blindly supporting a government that is self-destructive and causing more damage to American's than we've seen in ages, please talk to them. If they push back, find out why. Don't let them bring you down with twisted logic and these silly notions that there is "science" behind their belief. Take action to open up the conversation and find out what they really are afraid of.
Hate is taught, but you can show someone to love their fellow humans.
And for those who are wondering...
I am not a liberal, I am not a conservative, I am a human being.
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Get away from me sicko!!!
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Posted:Jan 21, 2018 10:23 am
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2018 5:18 pm
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You may think I'm talking about some ill minded perv, but this time I'm not. On the contrary, I'm talking about EVERYONE... who is sick.
That's right, everyone is coming down with something lately.
I've been hearing a lot of people getting either the flu or a head cold that has been making them feel awful. It must be terrible especially for those who can't seem to catch a break. I hope all of you who are sick get well soon, but please stay home as much as possible!
The last thing anyone needs is someone who is foolhardy running around doing errands while sick thinking that it's perfectly fine for their health. Top that off with people who aren't sick who don't cover their mouth when they cough or sneeze. Worst of all are those people who don't even wash their hands, or use soap. USE THE DAMN SOAP!
Be smart about how you go about your day to day. Be mindful of what will help you and others from getting sick. Most of all, if you are sick, please get away from me sicko.
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Work on the weekend
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Posted:Jan 20, 2018 7:34 am
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2018 12:18 pm
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Well, it seems like I wont be on much this weekend because unfortunately I got some overflow from work. There are a couple of projects I needed to bring home and not I have to dedicate my time towards getting these things done for money. Just thought I would give everyone the heads up. Also, it would be worth mentioning I'm not really planning on meeting anyone any time soon. I still haven't gotten a full week in back, and I hardly have talked with anyone that long, so please just be patient as I may not even be meeting anyone for coffee until late February. Again, I'm taking my time and am in no rush.
Wish me luck with work this weekend!
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Guys, NEVER do this ever!
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Posted:Jan 17, 2018 5:55 am
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2018 1:40 pm
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I need to make something very clear to all the men on here:
NEVER BE LIKE RUSS!
I didn't want to call anyone out in the first week of me being back, but this outrageous! I am trying my best to interact with everyone on here that has messaged me, but this is by far the rudest and most inconsiderate message I got so far.
I set up a blog post and auto-response to be able to handle answering as many people's "how are you doing" questions. I can get over 30 plus messages in an hour by being on here, and that is way too much reading for me to handle in one sitting. I work and have a life outside of this, so please respect the fact that I do make an effort to give everyone a chance.
Russ on the other hand lost his chance by being beyond rude and rather creepy. No I have no intention of marrying you, and just because I like to show off my body does not mean you own it. You have to earn the chance to meet me first before you can just toss me in bed for your selfish use. And to cap this all off, just because I don't want to fuck, or heaven forbid I don't get to your messages right away, doesn't mean I'm fake. It means I'm human and can only do so much at one time. Sure I can multitask, but I can't answer multiple messages at once, or ready through... it's just sensory overload and it can give me a headache if I'm not careful.
I want to give a special shout out to all the men who have taken the time to actually read my profile and respect it. There are a lot more of you that I initially thought, so thank you for that. Again, I'm just looking to chat with people first and not make any moves until I feel comfortable. I don't need a traumatizing experience my second time here thank you.
Let's all just have fun together here for now and we'll see what happens next.
R E S P E C T!
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What's up everyone!?
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Posted:Jan 16, 2018 3:55 pm
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2018 1:23 am
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Hey there everyone, how are you doing?
So I wanted to make a quick blog post that everyone could let me know how they're doing and what they've been up to. I figure this would be a fun way to connect with everyone who is hitting me up as I have way too many messages at the moment to get through in one sitting. So I'm sorry if I haven't responded to you, just keep in mind that while I'm on, I can go from 3 to 27 messages in only an hour alone. This isn't including the instant messenger that has apparently crashed on me last time when I got over 14 chat invites.
I'm personally doing ok, but have been dealing with some serious migraines lately. I'll probably be going to the doctor soon for that, but in the mean time I'm taking it easy here so that I don't fall on my face. It's been interesting coming back and getting use to things here again. I'm still not adjusted to the attention yet, but I'm sure in due time I will be.
So please leave a comment below and tell me how you're doing and what you've been up to. I'm curious to hear whats up with everyone.
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What picks you up in January?
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Posted:Jan 15, 2018 7:32 am
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2018 8:53 pm
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Needless to say the new year has started off as a cold one and keeping entertained out of work can kind of be a challenge. Yes, I am talking about non-sexual things right now so cool your jets there fly boys and girls.
This month in particular can be such a drag due to the holiday season putting everyone on high alert, whether it be getting gifts, making plans, traveling, etc. When January hits, it's back to work and the energy we were all feeding off of is now all depleted.
So in these times of chilling weather and extreme boredom, what do you like to do for fun? Please be more creative and give an answer that isn't about sex.
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Let's try this one more time.
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Posted:Jan 15, 2018 7:17 am
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2018 10:41 pm
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It was a few years ago I was on here, and I think I'll give it a second chance.
When I originally joined here a few years back I was a bit more adventurous, and maybe a little more foolish than I should of been. I was trying to have fun but being only a little bit cautious. Thankfully I never caught anything but my doctor always said I probably should be a little more careful for the amount of times I came in to visit for testing. When the staff remembers you by name, you know it's time to take a break.
And that is exactly what I did. I needed to focus on finishing school and thankfully I was able to graduate. I took some time to figure out where I was going to end up and not I'm a little more settled into my surroundings. So I figured that I would join up on here again. Some users were better than others, and at times it was tough dealing with people who were too demanding, but I'm open minded to see what can happen now.
So hope we can have fun together everyone and that you can show me some respect as I'll do the same.
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