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Is there really a difference?
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Posted:Jul 23, 2015 7:12 pm
Last Updated:Aug 8, 2015 10:19 am
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Suppose a woman enjoys one man at a time. During the course of a month she experiences 6 different men. Then another woman experiences 6 men all at the same time. Why do some people look at the woman who enjoys the multiple men any differently than the woman who enjoys multiple men only one at a time?
Thank you for your responses.
Smiles,
Sexy
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Broken Condom - what should you do?
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Posted:Jun 28, 2015 11:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2016 11:43 am
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I saw a frightening incident at a house party. A guy pulled out and his condom was broken. He had not cum ... but still.
Using a condom is not enough. You have to properly use a condom. And that includes using lots of lube. I have only seen a few condom breaks and they all occurred when their was a lack of lube.
Please be careful out there. Be considerate and use lots of lube.
You may have read my blog post about socks. At the same party I noticed a large bulge in my boyfriends right sock. On further investigation I saw he had a small bottle of Astroglide. Again a great idea ... condoms in the left sock and astroglide in the right sock.
My boyfriend and I discussed the condom break after the party. We agreed that the guy should have a discussion with the woman and her partner and then both should get STD tested immediately and openly share the result with each other. Many people put in their profile that they are respectful. Discussion and getting tested right away is the only respectful thing to do in that situation.
Anyone else have experiences or thoughts to share?
sexy
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When is the next party?
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Posted:Jun 12, 2015 2:00 pm
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2015 10:28 am
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"When is the next party?" Is the most often asked question. It is asked by both strangers and those who have been to our parties.
A key ingredient to group play is having enough people available. So a guy can actually help get a party going if he says "Hey Sexy just wanted to let you know I am available all weekend. If you guys are planning anything please keep me in mind." This is a very low pressure way to communicate with me.
Those emails I quickly answer with either ... "no parties during that time because my is visiting" ... "We are thinking about it if we can find a few more players" ... or ... "We are having a party Sunday afternoon. Would you like to come?"
I know guys don't want to be left in limbo. When I tell them "maybe" I also let them know don't wait around on us. If something else comes up by all means take it. And then let them know we will check their status if we decide to have a party.
Does anyone have any suggestions for improving how people communicate on the subject of a party?
Thanks,
Sexy
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What to say after the invitation but before the date
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Posted:May 25, 2015 1:44 pm
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2015 1:20 pm
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My bf and I were discussing how some guys seem confused as what to say or do after they have been invited to join in a threesome or come to a party. I thought that others could share their thoughts on this subject as well.
Here are some of my favorite emails:
Hi Sexy, Thank you again for the invitation to join you and your boyfriend tomorrow night. I am so excited. Looking forward to seeing you!
Hi Sexy, I am so excited to finally meet you tomorrow night. Is there anything like wine or snacks that I could bring?
Here are some of my least favorite emails.
Hey could you and I get together tomorrow so I can know you prior to the party?
I can't wait until the fucking.
Sexy can I see more pics of you so I can have something to look forward to?
Anyone else have thoughts on this?
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Condoms and Socks
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Posted:Mar 18, 2015 4:44 am
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2015 2:01 pm
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I asked my bf why he was wearing socks in group play. It was something new. He told me that he stuffs several condoms and a small tube of lube into his left sock. So when he has to wrap it up he isnt searching for a condom and possibly losing his boner or play partners interest. He said he stuffs the empty condom wrapers into his right sock so his play partner isnt rolling onto the wrapper. Do any of you guys have similar tricks?
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Merry Christmas
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Posted:Dec 25, 2014 6:14 am
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2014 3:01 pm
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I wonder what will be in my stocking this year?
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Naughty or Nice
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Posted:Dec 14, 2014 11:45 am
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2015 12:59 pm
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Naughty is the new Nice!
Well at least in my world I love Naughty men that treat me Nice.
Last weekend was some of the hottest play ever. We had a girlfriend over to play along with nine Hard Naughty guys the gal was supposed to just watch but hmmm that didn't happen we will be posting videos and stills soon but just imagine cum baths cum swap and strap on action.
Just a tease for later.
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Safe sex
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Posted:Oct 31, 2014 10:10 pm
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2014 8:47 am
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Why is this a uncomfortable subject?
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Halloween
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Posted:Oct 18, 2014 10:13 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 5:56 pm
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I love it! All the sexy people come out!
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To tell the truth!
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Posted:Oct 1, 2014 7:11 am
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2015 1:16 pm
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Will the real players please stand up!
We love to have fun lifestyle people over!! Sexy play is so exciting fun and of course hot!!
Lately we have run into pretenders wondering how put a positive spin on this and get real, sexy honest polite folk to leave the inhibitions at the door and get nasty!
Any suggestions?
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Life style!
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Posted:Jul 28, 2014 1:55 pm
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2014 11:39 am
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I guess it means different things to different people for me it is all about sharing. My honey sharing me, me sharing him with other gals.
I think that is a concept many can't grasp it goes against the norm the way of life we are Supposed to think.
I always quietly marched to a different drum mind you but, pondering is this what I want, is this the way I really think?
I like to have my own thoughts I like the choice to say yes or no. So unlike those people in other country's where Laws forbid women from enjoying sex mutilating body's and stoning the women if they so much as look the wrong way.
With that being said I am searching for those true lifestyle people that understand sharing... pleasure and SEX!
Yes I do enjoy being pleasured by more than one man I like to be desired in a very primal yet not animalistic way. NOT gang bang but sharing .....
tell me your thoughts
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Cock photos?
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Posted:Jun 26, 2014 11:03 pm
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2014 6:26 pm
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I'm wondering do gals find cock shots exciting? Not the body shot but photo of cocks, Big ones little ones pierced, brown, white. Black hard soft who knows.
I know guys are very attached to their cocks but really!,,, face photos body photos mean more,
My thoughts
Long lasting sexy guys that show sex appeal not a cock shot.
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