COUPLES... SEEKING BI FEMALES
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Posted:Jan 6, 2015 2:32 am
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2015 9:34 pm
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I will start this blog by first stating its contents isn’t directed at anyone in particular but more so a way to open dialogue / debate over some of the conversations and or observations I’ve had over the last 2 years with some members on here...
Couples... Seeking Bi females:
I for one am not bi (not yet anyway) lol am I curious? The jury is still out on that one, if my husband had his way...um YA, GO FOR IT! Perhaps one of these days, months, years I will shock him. lol
I have been approached by a few couples over the last little while in their quest to find women for a ffm setting and with some their husband would be optional if I had an issue with him participating. Obviously for the optional setting, clearly there is in fact interest in woman to woman pleasure but this blogs intent is to open dialogue on the other aspect of it...
I may be criticized for the following but this is more of my own personal observation/opinion....
I do understand and appreciate the desire for some women wanting to experience being with other women, we are sexy and hot aren’t we.  (Hmm, guess by that statement alone sort of has the jury’s decision) not quite, I’m just not ready yet. Anyway, the majority of the time it’s the male counterpart who approaches me. If it was the female I’d be questioning myself if it was in fact her and not the male... but that is a whole different topic in itself. Lol Typically it’s the same story, my wife would like to experience another woman but then suddenly gets twisted into sex chat as it is apparent he would like to be involved as much if not more than her. When that happens, I like to throw a little twist into things myself I start off by questioning if there would be any interest in a full swap scenario as well this way my husband can be part of this experience. Suddenly, it’s...oh no, my wife isn’t interested in males just females...interesting being that she is married to a male. I further check out their profile and low and behold it clearly has that...”we are in a secure relationship” statement. Lol
My observation and opinion is (not for all couples of course) but I’m certain the majority is of the “wants his cake and eat it too” metaphor.
Let’s broaden this a little further...the definition of bi is? Uh huh...into both sexes. Lol
I think a lot of women (I may be wrong for some) are being deprived of the experience of being with another male while the husband is the one who is insistent that she isn’t interested in the opposite sex or perhaps that is wishful thinking on his part.
I can hardly believe that any female who is married to a male would not have at some point come across another male where there wasn’t some interest...we are all human after all.
So I’ll wrap up this blog by saying, I’d have more respect for a male who openly stated that he does not want his wife/gf to be with another male then to try and make me or anyone else think otherwise.
Course by doing that, he could find himself in a debate as to why it’s only good for the goose and not the gander...lol
Ok be gentle on me please. lol
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Posted:Jul 23, 2014 4:17 pm
Last Updated:Jan 8, 2017 10:18 pm
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Although I’m sure everyone on here has experienced them, I find using either google image and or TinEye as a good start for doing image searches on members to sort of get some validation of whom I’m apparently chatting with. That in itself doesn’t actually guarantee the person is who they proclaim to be but we need to start somewhere...anyone else have any other methods of screening or advice? Seems as of late the fake versus real ratio on here is getting worse. Lol
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FRIENDS REQUEST
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Posted:May 29, 2014 2:55 pm
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2015 11:31 pm
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First off, I want to apologise to those who have sent me a friend request for which I have declined.
I typically don’t accept friend requests from someone I haven’t had the opportunity to chat with as one can hardly be a friend if I don’t even know who you are (small chat or just a Hi doesn’t qualify either). Lol Although my friends list is hidden, as of today I have removed every single person that was once on my friends list, after all, friends typically communicate at least once in a while and if there is no communication then I suppose I am no longer considered a friend? Lol I laugh to myself somewhat where I see my niece and the younger generation on facebook for example that have hundreds and I mean HUNDREDS of friends on their list and when special occasions arise such as birthdays...etc “maybe” 20-30 acknowledge that special occasion.
What I’m saying is, I’m not here trying to win any popularity contest, If I have offended anyone from my today’s removal, please don’t take it personal, those of you who are friends know who you are and don’t need any notation on anyone’s list to prove otherwise.
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FANTASY vs REALITY
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Posted:Oct 22, 2013 2:06 am
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2015 9:41 pm
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How do we rationalize our desires to have sex with other suited partners while we are in an apparent secure, loving monogamist relationship? I ask this primarily for couples that haven’t been in a committed relationship for a long time but can also be applicable to everyone. Fantasies are in my opinion a healthy and natural entity that we “all” have at one time or another fantasizing about being with that HUNK of a man with a monster tool or on the other end of the spectrum with that Bomb Shell with the perky breast and heart shaped bum and for some... best of both worlds.
Regardless of the fantasy gender or race we all have one thing in common, we all have them and for some it is just that, a fantasy and nothing more. For others pursuing fantasies can be risky just in the sense of opening dialogue... getting past that stage although a milestone would be either the beginning of your journey or at worse case the end of it. For us, a year of discussion and uncertainty had brought us to this point and trust me when I say that just prior to our first encounter (MMF) that a gazillion things go through your mind at a gazillion miles an hour. Lol Uncertainty and unknowns are the enemy, let’s face “reality”...you are about to embark on something way out of norm, there is also the other person to consider as well, unless of course he /she isn’t human you can be sure to have a room of everyone being a little apprehensive. Once things get rolling there is always... at least on the first encounter...the concern for how you are being perceived, again, even with all good intentions from all sides no one really knows how each person will react until things get rolling.
The reality for us is as follows....we have been together since I was 15 and he was 16, he was the only man I have ever been with, we both love sex and being together as long as we have can at times become routine. We have no regrets at this point and we look forward to more exciting times, the key to success in our opinion is the ability to differentiate intimacy from sex.
I will close with something to ponder....Although living out fantasies can be exciting and satisfying, In reality, we must not be naive to think that the more time spent with anyone in particular will not or can’t create an emotional bond. Thus using a safety net may serve as a purpose to minimize any risk of such an occurrence. Limiting the amount of time with an individual then move on and or selecting age groups where the likely hood would be ut most unlikely to go beyond sex.
For the record... “Mr” iwanta3some9 initiated this posting and the bulk of its content was his words.
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NON CIRCUMCISED MEN
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Posted:Oct 15, 2013 12:15 pm
Last Updated:Mar 14, 2015 12:27 pm
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OK! Enough! Everyone seems to challenge my circumcised men only preference, well...hope the following will put this to rest... for those of you who can view my videos know that I have the ability to squirt, having said that, I love to go down on a man almost as much as I love intercourse itself to the point of... I have Orgasms / Squirt while I’m giving a man head. This is my favorite part of sex...I’m not tooting my own horn but I enjoy watching men squirm while I’m doing my thing. I am multi orgasmic so needless to say I like to take my time and enjoy what I’m doing. I find “excessive” foreskin gross so that would take away the enjoyment that I desire so much.
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NO SHOWS
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Posted:Oct 15, 2013 12:14 pm
Last Updated:Jan 4, 2015 10:43 am
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Hi Everyone,
Where should I start...let’s see what kind of trouble I can get myself into. Lol
What makes a person do such a thing? My personal opinion is that these ignorant, useless walks of life are either... or the( mindset of a ) that open accounts on sites such as this only for one purpose...to procure nude pics so they can relieve themselves because A. They are scared of the real thing. B. Scared of rejection. C. Just plain assholes. Although sites such as these are great sources for people who are “sincere” to fulfill fantasies and alike we live in a electronic age where it is too easy to be disrespectful to one another. I make every effort to reply to every single email I receive and if I’m not interested I respectfully decline. Hiding behind a computer to tell me off after I decline only makes you look like a fool and only validates my “mindset of a ” hypotheses. So the bottom line to this particular post /blog is if you have no real intent on meeting then...Leave me the hell alone?
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