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Blogs > ParadoxSeeker > It's all for SEX ! ! !

Relationships (some are meant "to be" while others are "NOT")  

ParadoxSeeker 74M
31 posts
11/20/2012 8:24 am

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Relationships (some are meant "to be" while others are "NOT")
It's been a while since I last blogged, so ...


after a long-termed marriage(20 years) and a LTR(10+ years), my latest have been several short ones. (I had made up my mind, that after the 2 long-termed relationships, I would be open about my desire for "Group Fun" in "mixed company") A 3Some being the smallest form and a MMF, (with everybody "playing" at the same time), being the most enjoyable! (I've don't consider myself "straight" or "gay" or even "bi", just "sexual ", "very sexual") I'm very discreet so I also decided only to bring the subject up when the relationship might become "sexual".

The LTR disintegrated when it became apparent that she could be involved with multiple males but not at the same time and days apart (1-on-1s only) - "unavailable". STR#1(short-term relation), 5 years younger, became "unavailable" when she became involved with another. STR#2(3 years older) accepted bisexuality and liked the idea of "being with 2 guys, at the same time, but couldn't bring herself "to let it happen!" - "unavailable". STR#1 shows back up, becoming "available" for a MFM, but when boyfriend departs, "available" again, decides "to be alone for awhile" before becoming involved with "any type" of relationship is now "unavailable" again. STR#3, 25 years younger, accepts bisexuality and "Group Fun" but hubby isn't "keen on either", so that makes her - "unavailable". STR#4, about same age, relationship never really "got off the ground" ("unavailable") but she knows STR#5, 15 years younger, (who is of the "same mind set" as me) but has only has experienced FFM 3somes and STR#5 will not "play" with STR#4! Before I could set a "hook-up" for a MMF 3some, or a FFM 3some, or even a MF/MF bi-4some (even better), she's off fucking a guy ,my age, who says he "can deliver" on a FFM with him and his wife. (but he's straight so that makes the "husband and wife couple" "UNAVAILABLE"!

STR#5 maybe "available" but I count on her as being "questionable ???" and I'm not sure if I even want to "fool-around" with her even though she is the "best match" for me, so far!
5 females in 5 years (25; 15; 5(years younger); same age; and 3years older) and I'm still not having "Group Fun" yet!

perk_my_interes 67M  
71 posts
11/22/2012 2:38 am

 Hi.I found that kind of confusing........


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