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Blogs > Letsmeetandfindo > My thoughts and observations

Flirts and Hotlists  

Letsmeetandfindo 66M
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1/16/2019 8:38 pm
Flirts and Hotlists
So I have noticed that flirts that I receive and being placed on hotlists, that I usually get more activity from women out of my geographic region and much younger than I am. Seems very unlikely to me. My phone has a search feature that will search for photos. So based on this search, it looks like some of these profiles are fake. Not really a surprise . Seems like another marketing tool to stroke my ego and entice me to stay around or better yet to upgrade. What’s been your experience here?
Letsmeetandfindo 66M

1/16/2019 8:57 pm

 There are several repeat flirts from younger women not even in a reasonable driving distance from me. Why? It doesn’t make any sense. I will see this develops .


jDn3628 34M

1/16/2019 9:33 pm

 yeah, same has happened to me


Letsmeetandfindo 66M

1/17/2019 3:31 am
    Quoting  :
That’s a very good possibility. Thanks for adding


Letsmeetandfindo 66M

1/17/2019 3:32 am
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Agreed.


Letsmeetandfindo 66M

1/17/2019 4:26 am
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It does happen. I had a friend how was on another site , she was in her mid 50’s and the men on this site were in their early 20’s contacting her. She had fun, but decided against continuing on that way. She was wanting to be very sexually active and was .


Letsmeetandfindo 66M

1/17/2019 7:38 am
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That’s a great idea. That should be real. Thanks. Great thought.


EndlessCock4u 45M
Ask me for a photo

1/17/2019 8:31 am

 This whole site seems to be a waste of time. Fakes Flakes and pic collectors has been my experience


FresnoWoman 53F
Ask me for a photo
883 posts
1/17/2019 10:14 am

 Many of my flirts have been local, or at least from someone in California. But I've gotten flirts from the other side of the world. I figure they're just hoping I'll be interested too. So far, there hasn't been a flirt whom I wanted to flirt with in return.

I think hotlisting is useful. It makes it easier to find someone you'd like to talk with later, in case you ran out of messages for the day or you were just signing off. In both cases, I suspect most of them were real. I think scammers going after women have a different angle--they IM you with some kind of sob story. I think. The scammers most likely focus on male profiles because there are so many more of them, thus a better return.


Letsmeetandfindo 66M

1/17/2019 5:55 pm
    Quoting EndlessCock4u:
    This whole site seems to be a waste of time. Fakes Flakes and pic collectors has been my experience
As a non paying membet my expectations are not very high with the web site. As you know the site is here to make money. So there seems to be a number of fake contacts out there ( built in to get you to want more). The site let me chat to this one contact for a few back and forth emails, at some point the site cut off that contact even though the other member had paid to be able to exchange emails. I believe this was another attempt to get me to move to gold. This is more recreational for me. If I am lucky enough to meet some people and connect with them. That will be great. We all just have to filter out those fakes, flakes and pic collectors.


Letsmeetandfindo 66M

1/17/2019 6:04 pm
    Quoting FresnoWoman:
    Many of my flirts have been local, or at least from someone in California. But I've gotten flirts from the other side of the world. I figure they're just hoping I'll be interested too. So far, there hasn't been a flirt whom I wanted to flirt with in return.

    I think hotlisting is useful. It makes it easier to find someone you'd like to talk with later, in case you ran out of messages for the day or you were just signing off. In both cases, I suspect most of them were real. I think scammers going after women have a different angle--they IM you with some kind of sob story. I think. The scammers most likely focus on male profiles because there are so many more of them, thus a better return.
I like your point about hot listing. It provides a bookmark of people you may have thought might be interesting or the other application is to hotlist someone with friends and then hit their friends button . That way you can see what type of friends they have, they like. It can also help you define the more active members ( that could be good or bad based on how you look at that). Lots of ways to go. Hopefully we all want to meet a compatible contact ( man , woman. couple ) have some fun and perhaps make some friends.


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
1/17/2019 8:27 pm

 I send flirts and friend folks. I will even become a fan if they are not gold members to allow messages to be sent. As a female I don't get many flirts from people too far away from me. I do understand men have to deal with a lot of fakes and scammers on here.
Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


Letsmeetandfindo 66M

1/17/2019 8:37 pm
    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    I send flirts and friend folks. I will even become a fan if they are not gold members to allow messages to be sent. As a female I don't get many flirts from people too far away from me. I do understand men have to deal with a lot of fakes and scammers on here.
Thanks for your thoughts on the subject. So there are at least a few real people out there that use flirts and the friend request features. Good to know.

I was just hit up on IM tonight by a 28 year old female to join a sex party in a city nearby. Real or not real? I go with not real!


Letsmeetandfindo 66M

1/18/2019 3:15 am
    Quoting HedonicHeathen:
    Those aren't even people .. their bots ... if they are from far away and slightly catered to your interests. Then it is a program that is designed to not even be good at interactions ... if you happen to get the IMs too. It is all phishing to get you off site onto a site that will hit you up for credit card before you can do anything else. Been this way for years ...and if you look into the history of programs that mimic humans in basic conversation it goes all the way back to the late 60s.

    As soon as you reply in a way that makes them have to do anything orginal ... like answer a personal question ... that shows. Plus if you don't ever send money or even pay here ---you still get them. They spam the members here.
Thanks for the comment and the perspective , Seems to be accurate.


Letsmeetandfindo 66M

1/18/2019 3:17 am
    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    I send flirts and friend folks. I will even become a fan if they are not gold members to allow messages to be sent. As a female I don't get many flirts from people too far away from me. I do understand men have to deal with a lot of fakes and scammers on here.
Your message was blurred , but thanks for your attempted communication .


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