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Married and having an affair
Married and having an affair |
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1/16/2019 8:04 pm |
My thinking is that it might be safer to see another married person due to each party having something at stake.
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absolutely....you both are in the same position with much to lose and much to risk.
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You're right, from the married persons perspective, having an affair with another married person is less risky than having the affair with a single person. But.... from the single persons perspective, having an affair with the married individual is also less risky, than having the affair with another single person.
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1/16/2019 8:28 pm |
Wish I knew the answer to this.
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Good points
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I agree. Always have an affair with married person.
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Depends on the danger you are trying to avoid. If you're trying to avoid your wife finding out, a married woman is best. If you're trying to avoid being shot by a jealous husband then single women would be best. If you're trying to avoid a committed relationship developing, a married woman with a rich husband is best. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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I chose married because less chance of catching something
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Single or married doesn't seem to matter it just depends on who they feel can keep a secret and not spread gossip
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1/16/2019 9:04 pm |
Married less likely to talk to other people
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1/16/2019 9:38 pm |
absolutely....you both are in the same position with much to lose and much to risk.
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1/16/2019 9:40 pm |
You're right, from the married persons perspective, having an affair with another married person is less risky than having the affair with a single person. But.... from the single persons perspective, having an affair with the married individual is also less risky, than having the affair with another single person.
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1/16/2019 9:42 pm |
Wish I knew the answer to this.
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1/16/2019 9:45 pm |
Single or married doesn't seem to matter it just depends on who they feel can keep a secret and not spread gossip
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1/16/2019 9:47 pm |
I chose married because less chance of catching something
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1/16/2019 9:49 pm |
Depends on the danger you are trying to avoid. If you're trying to avoid your wife finding out, a married woman is best. If you're trying to avoid being shot by a jealous husband then single women would be best. If you're trying to avoid a committed relationship developing, a married woman with a rich husband is best.
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I didn't vote because I think the risk is 50/50. Not all single women are looking for love or marriage. If they're career professionals discretion is important to them too. With a married woman, not feeling satisfied with what she has now, is as likely to develop feelings or dish with one of her girlfriends. The risk of getting caught increases if the spouses don't know, because now 2 people are making excuses, covering up, increasing potential to be caught.
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Getting married is a waste of time . How many remain faithful? Look at all the married people on the site .
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1/17/2019 3:35 am |
That’s a very good point. No risk if a married person just avoids having the affair all together.
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1/17/2019 3:41 am |
Getting married is a waste of time . How many remain faithful? Look at all the married people on the site . But there are some very good marriages out there. Thanks.
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1/17/2019 3:44 am |
I didn't vote because I think the risk is 50/50. Not all single women are looking for love or marriage. If they're career professionals discretion is important to them too. With a married woman, not feeling satisfied with what she has now, is as likely to develop feelings or dish with one of her girlfriends. The risk of getting caught increases if the spouses don't know, because now 2 people are making excuses, covering up, increasing potential to be caught.
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1/17/2019 6:29 am |
Getting married is a waste of time . How many remain faithful? Look at all the married people on the site .
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1/17/2019 7:40 am |
The first sensible comment and the only sensible comment on this blog ..people waste so much time with their lives in getting married and a lot do it knowing they will often cheat..People that cheat with another cheaters , Whats to say the cheaters aren't screwing a lot of people? There is no guarantee you wont end up with stds its no safer than singles screwing whatever comes their way...
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1/17/2019 11:26 am |
It would make the most sense to deal with someone who has just as much to lose as you do. If you decide to deal with another married person, hopefully the person is as discreet as they say they are.
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I prefer married
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