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Confirm ID and avoid phony AFF profiles  

bi4U2take 48M
5 posts
10/27/2018 12:23 am
Confirm ID and avoid phony AFF profiles


Edit: I''m going to edit this post with a user name each time I have another scam artist hit me up

1.) NataLie4FUNxx26 - says she is a freelance LesbianPersonals model in town at her moms house.
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Original Post:

Confirm ID on LesbianPersonals is enough, don't fall for members trying to send you to 3rd party websites for identification verification. I've been flirted with, hot listed and messaged by scam artists left and right in my short week on here.

My view is that I submitted my license, it has my name, the photo matches me and you hold your photo id by your face to prove you are the person submitting your own ID. I'm sure it's not a perfect system, but I bet it massively reduces your chances of dealing with some loser dirtbag trying to get you to sign up for a 3rd party fake verification system on another website that says it's free to verify you so long as you have a valid Credit card.

I've seen this scam about 20 times already from fake women trying to meet somewhat suddenly.
I happen to have a substantial of great credit and I have a few prepaid cards with my full registered name imprinted on them that I use which do not and will not be declined like gift cards.
I use these for my discreet purchases or for when I feel something is too good to be true.
Today a stunning profile contacted me, said she was visiting her mom and was in town for a week and wanted to have some fun.
Ok, no problem but way too impulsive and a HUGE red flag.
Most women of the photos caliber, they can walk out the front door and trip over 5 eagar idiots who look like me, so I wasn't buying the initial story which I won't go into too much details to make this story a bunch shorter.
But I was intrigued on how the scam would further unfold, so I dug in a bit.
I read all the fine print on the 3rd party verification website.
The website as a few frontpages I've seen before says "Free verification", but after two days if not canceled I'd be charged $29.92 month. So I used my card transferred only $20 onto it and processed it for my free verification. It got declined. So I took my 4% Visa Black card which gets declined 0% of the time and is my tier one card (Needing a 800 credit score to maintain it), transferred $20 to it and it got declined.
Wow, Shocker! That tells me the free website was pre-authorizing at least more than I allowed to be available during a time period that is supposedly free.

Amaze-balls, right?
So I told the woman, hey the website declined two top tier credit cards and to just meet me for coffee at a very public very busy shop nearby, she would have safety in numbers in a totally covered video surveillance shop.
She said then that she was a freelance model for LesbianPersonals and that she would need to ask her manager if it was ok to meet me.
Then amazingly she came back with a response that she wanted to stay an extra week to get to know me but her agent needs to get $1,000 in lost revenue for her taking the week off and to make it worthwhile she will split the difference with me. All I need to do is Western Union $500 to some bullshit place.
Obviously I declined to that do for every reason including being bonkers retarded beyond belief.
The womans story then thickened quicker than frozen syrup, I played it out for nearly 3 hours while working at my desk because I could and it was entertaining to me because I knew it was fake within 5 text exchanges.
Anyhow for every completely feasible work around I made there was a stupid countermeasure that this probably old dirty man sitting in a ghetto apartment had. Suddenly her already pre-planned 5 day hiatus which should have been already with no financial loss to anyone needed to be 5 additional days with me paying for half of some so called models salary so that she could spend 5 more days with someone who she had never met.
The next excuse I was given was that She couldn't navigate around 3rd party managerial approval to leave her moms house because LesbianPersonals sent along a bodyguard to her on her . The woman tried to convince me her mom lived at an exact address which I easily looked up in two seconds (because I'm in the property business) it is a shitty apartment complex and not a house.
The buildings had half 1 bedrooms and half 2 bedroom apartments meaning this body guard must be sleeping in the same bed as mom and this model every night or at least with the model (lol, whatever) and if traveling with such prestige why the fuck wouldn't she be in a hotel with jack and jill adjoining rooms?
Blah, blah, blah... My story summarized here: There are some sewage dwelling fucked up stupid twisted motherfuckers on here trying to scam you.
I've tightened down my expectations considerably and will give trust where trust is earned, I'm not freely giving it away.
Confirm your ID, it takes less than a days time to make it happen and you will get a more workable response from me.

bi4U2take 48M
1 post
10/27/2018 7:48 am

Confirm ID isn't perfect by any means, but I'm willing to bet it knocks down a decent percent of these ghouls. Out of the couple dozen cess pool freaks that have tried to bs thier way, zero have had a confirmed ID. Just saying my experience so far and I'll update this if that changes.
Of course I'll have my own secondary vetting process as well.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
10/27/2018 10:55 am

You aren't even able to use your own face that's on the drivers license you used to confirm yourself,Who or what are you hiding from.

Using more than all the road!


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
10/28/2018 2:46 pm

For dating sites, it's important to cultivate a good sense of discernment. Just ask yourself if it *really* makes sense. And you can google around for common dating and catfishing scams to get an idea of what red flags to watch out for.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
10/28/2018 10:49 pm

Hate to tell you this, but i've busted fake profiles that had confirmed ID as well.

Scammers will pass at nothing to sell their fake profiles.


WeFuckEmAll 55M/54F  
10 posts
9/26/2021 7:46 am

How many of the comments here are written by the same scammer with fake profiles?


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