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Ghosting  

kwin1981 43M
8 posts
11/21/2018 12:42 pm
Ghosting

Is anybody tired of being ghosted in chat? I have been on this site for a long time now and I've tried to chat with people online, and have seen that they read my post but they don't say anything. Has it come to this that ignoring people is the thing to do now? Whatever happened to people being nice to other people. I would rather you tell me that you're not interested then to read my messages and act like I never sent you one in the first place. That's all be mature about this

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/21/2018 3:01 pm

 Would you rather have them answer you back in the same tone?Where you're considered to be like all those who have no respect.Don't read profiles and be of the belief women don't have preferences.Where unfounded assumptions are leveled as a standard procedure?Well the last sentence you do ,because they are!
Using more than all the road!


pagancountrygirl 66F  
Ask me for a photo
6466 posts
11/21/2018 3:26 pm

 Just because the system shows the other person has supposedly "read" your message, doesn't make it true. You also should understand that no one is obligated to respond to any message you send.
Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
11/21/2018 4:04 pm
    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    Just because the system shows the other person has supposedly "read" your message, doesn't make it true. You also should understand that no one is obligated to respond to any message you send.
As stated above the system is very deceptive, if it tells you it is read , or it tells you it is delivered, these are just the system working it's thing, it has coding built in to enhance all aspects of it's operation, Most of the time when you get one of these messages , it is just a message, it means absolutely nothing....sorry to say it this way , but have been here a log time, Good luck on your venture, maybe change how you approach.. if the present isn't working do something different.!!!
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Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
11/21/2018 4:43 pm

 Sometimes you can try to respond and it wont let you, it will just sit there. Its not reliable at all.


kwin1981 43M

11/23/2018 7:06 pm

 Ok. I will say in my case... I dont come right out and ask women to fuck or even lower there standards. I am 98% of the time generally interested in just getting to know the perosn/s I would think might fit my rype of personality. I am just looking to see if the majority of people on here are dealing with the same issues


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