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Curious about something... Optimistic or Pessimistic?
Curious about something... Optimistic or Pessimistic? |
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Interesting that you have Male: I don't trust women in either place but not the same option for women re: men. hmph. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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9/25/2018 3:16 pm |
It's always a good idea to be Optimistically Pessimistic on here!
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I have a philosophy of trusting others, male or female, until they prove they can't be trusted. Believe me, I have more than enough impetus to not trust. But life is just a drag if you constantly think the worst. Do I get burned occasionally. Sure. But I'd rather live with a few bumps and bruises along the way, then close myself in with trust issues. That said, if I were a woman, I'd trust little about men till they earned it. LOL " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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9/25/2018 3:53 pm |
lol after being stood up 24 times since joining in Dec I have very little trust and or faith in any kind of intimacy between me and another but in saying that I chat with a lot of guys that would do well here as opposed to the local ones already here to choose from..but again till someone proves me wrong I stand by my convictions...
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Now that you've fixed the options, I'll be bad and say that, in my opinion, trust and optimism are not the same. So I try to be optimistically hopeful that I don't have to be suspicious. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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I try to be optimistic. Operative word is “try”. I like to think I am not desperate but hopeful. There are some really good men around. I am hopeful to find one. And hopeful I can recognize him if I do.
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9/25/2018 5:05 pm |
My personal experience with internet introduction services has been overwhelmingly negative but I do accept that my expectations are unrealistic so your experiences have a greater chance of getting met than mine. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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I think I am more of an optimistic realist. I look for, and hope for the best, but not really expect it, I just want to remain a kind and helpful person, and hope others will be the same. Smart as a rock, strong as a marshmallow, and hung like a flea. Now, don't that make me sexy? Visit my blog, NudeDon69 Check out the 'Half Naked Wednesday' bloggers HNW Bloggers and 'LesbianPersonals Naughty Community' AFF Naughty Community.
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9/26/2018 6:13 am |
We been stood up from women on here but men. Makes it hard to trust women
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