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How do you find what you are looking for on here?  

ijustwantsex0312 38M
6 posts
6/19/2018 12:28 pm
How do you find what you are looking for on here?

Been here awhile and I can barely get a conversation out of a woman. I'm not being pushy and not trying to rush anything. Yet it seems as if I'm being over looked. Any advice?

japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
6/19/2018 1:16 pm

 well...you are a standard member so you can't probably do much...can't read message, and write...so maybe blogs are best place for you to sell yourself...don't forget to go to other peoples blog and mingle...

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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/19/2018 2:27 pm
    Quoting japaneseass:
    well...you are a standard member so you can't probably do much...can't read message, and write...so maybe blogs are best place for you to sell yourself...don't forget to go to other peoples blog and mingle...

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Following up on what JA pointed out, you can earn points via blogging and use them to read profiles.

Do you fall into whatever description the person you are writing to may offer? Are you saying something that may interest the recipient?
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
6/19/2018 2:35 pm

 It sucks to be a standard member, but Japaneseass has a good point blog land or maybe even your local chat room. And when chatting with the ladies take it slow and chat with them get to know them and see what kinds of things interest them and let them know what interests you..
Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
6/19/2018 4:28 pm

 Try a site where people are.
Using more than all the road!


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
6/19/2018 4:53 pm

 Pretty much impossible if you cannot read emails to see what women write that they are looking for...their criteria. Then only contact those whose criteria you meet.

Not to say being a paying member is a guarantee, but it increases the odds. Also, stay local. Local chatrooms and groups are not quite what they used to be...still may help you. Look at local bloggers. Comment on what they write. Be supportive.

Your profle says you like eating pussy and licking ass. So does pretty much every men here...be unique...do not elaborate on what you like sexually. Think of this as your intro...how would you describe yourself if you met in the real world, not on a sex site?

Get rid of the dick pick. You might be proud of it; however, its one of many on this site. Most women are not looking for dicks. We are looking for men. If you do not want to show your face, be a little provocative...upper body, a few buttons undo...shirt and tie...not a tank top or grungy tee.

You may still never meet anyone. You say you are just looking for sex...even us horny, slutty women are usually looking for more.

Not being judgmental or criticizing, just trying to be helpful.
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


ijustwantsex0312 38M
17 posts
6/25/2018 10:21 pm

 Thank you all for the input. Sorry about the late response. I believe you all really gave me some very good insight on how to find what I'm looking for on here.


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