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How to write a quality message to others-Communication tips
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How to write a quality message to others-Communication tips Oh, I, could tell you why The oceans near the shore I could think of things I'd never Thunk before, And then I'd sit down and think some more. I would not be just a muffin', My head all full of stuffin', My heart all full of pain; And perhaps I'd deserve you and be Even worthy even you If I only had a brain. SCARECROW -WIZARD OF OZ We have one of the most detailed profiles on this site, with explicit road map on the best approach yet we still get one word or one sentence greetings asking if we are interested? There are plenty of couples that are looking for stunt cock and have limited profile descriptions themselves, so possibly from inference you may "get by" with these couples with such a mediocre or sub par greeting. However when you see a couple that has actually spent time and effort giving a great deal of detail it should automatically be considered that maybe....they are looking for more. We are one of the rare single male friendly couples on any site. Like the opening of the wizard of oz excerpt, we only WISH single men had a fucking brain. Be worthy, sit and think before sending a lackluster introduction. Especially when you have a couple that spent time to let you know exactly how to respond . OH wait we should be absolutely ECSTATIC that you sent a "HEY!" message --HOLY SHIT 3 letters and an EXCLAMATION POINT --OH now we found the one .. let me get my wife ready SPREAD her legs WIDE open and get ready for the most intuitive, most intense , ground breaking sex she has ever received ---anyone writing 3 letters and an exclamation MUST be the absolute best choice there is in the universe. Come on? Think, use your brain- HOW does your message stand out among the 200 others that we receive monthly and garner our attention with such a lack of efffort in reading and apparent attention to detail. or wait "Hung, 26 year old with stamina " ----get plenty of those ---OF course we are so interested no picture , no value and absolutely no reference to the things we offered in profile that may be important to us. Step By step: 1) Read profile 2) respond with something of interest that specifically points to a SPECIFIC thing you like about our profile or HOW YOU fit the preferences WE ARE LOOKING FOR. 3) Show some effort -give examples or direct reasons why you feel you may be a good match 4) STOP leading with your own agenda --& quote;"I want to meet because I want to fuck her", means nothing to us ---you are one in a sea of lackluster , mediocre responses 5) OPEN pictures or be ready to provide --HOW can we offer invite when UNABLE to gauge attraction -or have only a COCK pic-we dont invite cocks to meet --we invite MEN with personality and intelligence-Common fucking sense 5) Use common sense --she is not a piece of meat and sex is not guaranteed --nothing in life is-- natural conversation and interest is how HUMAN BEHAVIOR works -- not a cock pic -- fucktard ! We actually list preferences and a direct step by step on how to approach us and yet still get ridiculous introductions.. We know we are on a sex site BUT is it so unimaginable that we expect some intelligence, intuition and effort? How about natural communication and conversation SKILL above and beyond sex? If you cant write a complete thought or give effort in introducing yourself how do you think we feel YOU PERFORM IN BED? With the the same disregard and lack of interest other than getting yourself off? This is your chance to make a first impression --why is it that our society has lost all its ability to make a quality introduction and offer anything of value more than a few words and a virtual bullshit greeting. We are actually very approachable, honest, sincere people that want to meet --but also have a certain expectation to at least read profile and extend a moderate level of effort with us- |
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I read so many complaints on this very topic.I'm starting to think that it must be a lot of model material or there wouldn't be so many women putting forth the kind of effort as you and others have. It's on the order of using stick diagrams to indicate motion just to get these guys to put one foot in front of the other.It's almost as if you have to write something for them.There certainly isn't anything compelling or even respectful about "Hey baby let's screw!"Their profiles must be atrocious. It is a commendable service to offer someone of this particular brain trust. I mean if they haven't gotten it by now I really don't think there is a thimble of hope they ever will. Good Luck! Using more than all the road!
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On this site - your expectations are too high. However, if you're looking for quality - you wait, patiently until that one or two find your profile and respond appropriately. Beyond that, understand, you're looking for a needle in the haystack. Localized as much as specialized interest. From the entire population, its probably in the 2%-4% range - so that haystack is really big.  good luck....
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