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The difficulty  

noodlesmedial 48M/56F
2 posts
8/22/2017 11:52 am
The difficulty


The main difficulty we're finding is that some people don't understand that we're not looking to find the first guy who turns up and run with it following a brief phone call. I do realize there are people who are happy to do this, but that's just not for us. We don't want to have sex with the first person who comes along. It seems to be hard for some people to understand this. We do want to play out our threesome, but not with somebody we don't know at all.

Thus the reason for the email blocks we put in place. It's to filter out the people that we would rather not be involved with. If we don't like a person when they type, then we sure as hell won't be able to deal with them during sex.

I seem to get a lot of guys who answer our threesome goal who actually get angry when we tell them that no - we want to know more about you before we agree to do this. We do get accused of making excuses not to go through with this, but that's just not the case. The fact is, we just don't want to deal with arrogant, mechanical arseholes!

marriedcretin 54M
1324 posts
8/25/2017 8:58 pm

I can understand, this is the ultimate friends with benefits, you want to be more relaxed, get to know them, be friends, be relaxed and only when you are confident crawl on to the bed and start peeling off clothing.
There are a lot of idiots on here, but keep looking, you'll eventually find someone with the patience to take it slow and finally fulfill your fantasy.


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