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Pic Tips for Guys  

Curiousthatsall9 50F  
91 posts
8/3/2017 2:55 am
Pic Tips for Guys

A guy recently asked me for feedback about his photos. Thought I'd share some of my infinite wisdom.

First, it's up to you to share what you want to share. But I recommend leading with your best asset. Women do not expect all men to have rock hard bodies and six pack abs, but if you're pretty far off from that mark, posting a naked torso pic is probably not that alluring.

Face pics: Pics where you are making a funny face are not helpful, especially if the only face pic you post is some contorted, twisted, duck-lips type of facial expression. Selfies: the appropriate angle for a selfie of your face is for the camera to be at face level or slightly above face level, pointing slightly downward. Selfies that you take in the car while holding the camera in your lap and the shot is up your nostrils are NOT a flattering angle.

If you are concerned about posting a face pic on LesbianPersonals, don't do it. But don't do the stupid cop-outs like posting a pic of your face but you've got on a hat and dark glasses. Or posting some stupid scary looking mask over your face. Just crop your damn head out if you don't want to post your face.

Dick Pics. Ah, dick pics. Most women who have been on here for 5 minutes probably stopped flinching a long time ago. In fact, they become an acquired taste. And often they can be a deciding factor. I'm not sure why guys post pics of their flaccid dicks unless the dick is BIG, and you want to show that it's big even before it gets hard. If it's hanging there and your balls are hanging down lower than your dick? Maybe skip that pic. Maybe you're a grower - skip the pic. Trying to show a bulge through your clothing: works if you're wearing white underwear and it's wet, not so effective through jeans. Trying to put objects next to your dick to show scale (including a measuring tape): Can be effective, but please know that we ladies notice if the object in question is being shoved hard into your groin to try to make your dick look bigger than it is.

Speaking of things we ladies notice that you might not be cognizant of: whatever is going on in the background of your photos. We notice if it looks like you live in a pig pen - or, WORSE, if looks like you are taking selfies in a remote, isolated warehouse with only a bed and probably a few freezers where you are storing the bodies of your previous victims. I once saw a dick pic of an otherwise very respectable looking dick but the guy had his underwear pulled aside and there was a massive, gaping hole/rip in his undies that was very off-putting. Also, a guy posted a photo of himself standing in front of a Confederate flag. I'm actually quite glad he did - big red flag there, glad to avoid that.

Please. Never. Post. Pics. With. . In. Them. (even fully clothed, g-rated pics) Keep your far, far removed from this site.

Pointless photos: Pics of yourself from a distance. Pics of the back of your head. Pics of a sunset or a river. Pics of yourself with dead animals.

Finally, the pic that baffles me. I mean, I'm open to dick pics now but I will never get why men think women might be bamboozled by a pic of just a puddle of your spooge. Totally ineffective.

Trunk20cm 50M
5 posts
8/15/2017 12:31 am

 great advice. Thanks


RidemyHD72 51M
Ask me for a photo

12/13/2017 3:21 pm

 Great, advice.


Adult_Disney 53M  
4 posts
6/1/2018 11:54 am

 I am enjoying reading your blog so far. The comment about a puddle of sponge, Too funny! Is that really gonna be a turn on? The Male portion of our specie is faulted. And yet somehow we have our moments.

Your comments are definitely insightful, so far...


HedonicHeathen 56M
Ask me for a photo
198 posts
11/4/2018 4:24 pm

 Actually the worst dick pics are the dudes sitting on toilet ... a toilet at home makes one wonder ... why? there are other choices. A public toilet makes one wonder ... many other things. Forethought and planning is being demonstrated here.

Any good dick pic is gonna have many rejected versions. Also my take is the main reason there are so many dick pics versus face pics is that men are choosing between letting it all hang out versus anonymity. So they are masked and erect. Full body is brave especially if you have a job or life where that could matter. So the thing is for most guys with just the dick pics ... commit. if you require anon to the very end - yuck. For them I'd recommend only answer profiles where super hot chicks describe what they are looking for as 'men'.

Liking your blog... followed.


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