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What is Love?  

Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:39 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Wow. That's a heavy topic! I wrote a blog post about what people might think it means.... Love is about the eyes and soul of the person u might be kissing - and then - you connect! That's not much help..... is it? . The post is called...Accidentally In Love... Best of luck!


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
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8/28/2018 3:40 pm

    Quoting 28shyblueyes:
    The meaning of Love is a hard one to put into words for sure. The problem with society now days is most people are "Its's all about me", Which means they hurt the ones that love them and don't even see it happening. When the person you love is the last thing you think about before sleep and the first thing you think about when you wake up. I kind of live by this motto right now. "It's better to be happy and alone, than miserable with someone."


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:41 pm

    Quoting Platosgames:
    I'm so sure I have no idea anymore, that i wrote a song about it. It's posted on my blog.
    That said, something I was thinking about the weekend I wrote the song, was that last weekend?
    True love would have to be close to something that the medical community would say is unhealthy. Co dependency. Where you feel you can't live without the other person, they are everything in your life. Except it would need to be felt by both parties and not just one. If both sides felt that way, would it still be considered a problem?

    I think, if I could find it, I'd have no problem giving someone that power over me. But to be honest, I'm thinking I'm in the same boat as you. I'll keep singing Solitary Man, by Johnny Cash.

    Well my version of the Chris Issaks version of the Johnny Cash version, that was written by Neil Diamond.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:41 pm

    Quoting scott6250:
    Love is when you have a deep caring and committed relationship and they are the
    main thing that you care about.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:41 pm

    Quoting  :



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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:42 pm

    Quoting HedonicHeathen:
    I think the ancient greeks had like 6 different kinds of love with various utilitarian levels of complexity. I do believe they put agape up north, top of the compass, and that it was meant to be rather a dominating kinda thing.

    But for myself it is about the only natural pain killer there is that even a small drop of it ... even distilled down to a third of it's real deal ... make life worth living. Of course ... with that ... it is also the aspect of this experience that makes the rest seem less tolerable. so ... yeah ... it is a chemical cocktail of neurotransmitters that are released based on imago conditioning and accidents of emergence ... so hard to stay with because you know ... other people's different experiences.

    I think there have been a few poems and books written on the subject ... maybe a few records and songs about it .... but most miss the other side of the coin.

    It is a four letter word with various levels of icnonity depending on who you say it to and who says it of your.

    I think like consciousness .. it is a side effect of doing things the correct way. It can't be kept captured or bottled ... enjoy it while it lasts ... remember though most people can forget that they can become a virgin again. Not the best place to be if it is falshearted love ... not that virgins are anything but.
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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:42 pm

    Quoting Looknfind18:
    love is a very curious thing but the opposite of it is to be alone and as Three Dog Night said; 1 is the loneliest number.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:43 pm

    Quoting TrucknLuvn:
    Hey Pretty Lady!

    Yes, love can be painful, but that pain is only there because you shared so many beautiful moments with your partner. You willingly opened yourself up to this person and shared your mind, body, and soul with them. You trusted them and they hurt you. But... they also hurt themselves in the process. Just as you shared your love together, you also share heartbreak and pain.

    Is love worth it? To me, it is.

    A life without love, wouldn't be worth living.
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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:44 pm

    Quoting love2pleasu13:
    The word love is one the most abused words in the English language. Reason so many people say it know they don't mean it. That's why finding true love is hard 2 find.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:44 pm

    Quoting love2pleasu13:
    The word love is one the most abused words in the English language. Reason so many people say it know they don't mean it. That's why finding true love is hard 2 find.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:45 pm



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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:45 pm

    Quoting  :

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:46 pm

    Quoting Story435:
    Hello Kitten
    Love is a strong feeling or passion affection for a person of the opposite sex! Sometimes you can be hurt when one person loses the feeling of love for another person.
    Classy Cat
    Butch
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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:46 pm

    Quoting Sexczy69:
    Only you have the power to hurt you? Love for me is a two was street! But the age old question will always be? WHAT IS LOVE!!! only you have the answer to that question! As for me what does love have to do with it?????????? LOL...
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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:47 pm

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    Yes, falling in love is so nice!!...but if the other party does not..it can hurt very bad.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/28/2018 3:48 pm

    Quoting 69bud69:
    Kitten, love can mean so much to a person. Pain, yes, if there is a sudden conclusion, an unknown unwanted surprise. However, think about those other feelings you had while in love. Happiness, joy, satisfaction, being wanted and hopefully appreciated,. Nothing beats a warm loving hug followed by a tender kiss.
    Yes, sometimes we are dealt a lemon, but not all the time.
    You are a beautiful woman and I'm sure there are people who love you for who you are as a person.

    Bud
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Peg2Differ 52M  
17 posts
8/29/2018 4:44 am

Kitten,
This is very tough to answer, and I can tell you that I honestly believed that love was not a thing at one point in my life. However, I was just jaded at the time. It is as real as the pain that you talk about. Simply put, love is when you find the one that is willing to be hurt as much as you. Imagine how attracted you will be to someone that has left themselves completely vulnerable and invested in you.
Sadly, it sounds like others have not done that. Not surprisingly, you have probably given more of yourself then others have given for you. It will never work if both are not equally committed. Everyone feels love in different ways and the difficulty is to find the person that knows how to make sure you feel it every day.
It IS possible, and when you DO find it, you will know why it is so powerful! It IS worth it.


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