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leximer1 35F
85 posts
7/6/2016 10:21 am


I love posting in my blog! I have found out so many new things as well as found insights on how others see things that I had never thought of before. Also, through my blog, private chats on LesbianPersonals, ALT, Yahoo, etc…I get to talk to a lot of people who are just grateful to be able to chat with someone who does not judge them for their likes, fetishes, fantasies, desires, and such. I don’t judge in the least because I loooove sharing such things with people. There is NO better way to get an insight into someone than to be able to discuss things openly and freely that one might normally suppress due to societal pressures or just plain shyness. The first things I always tell them is fuck society. Society is nothing but people who are too afraid to be open as the ones they judge. If they call you a freak, you show them just how freaky you can be. If they call you a , you show them the true definition of . If they call you a slut, you own that title like a boss!

I just loooove chatting with people who are uninhibited or trying to learn how NOT to be inhibited. It’s scary when you first truly decide to be WHO you WANT to be instead of WHO you are EXPECTED to be. It’s not like you wake up one day and just say fuck it and you are instantly free of societal pressures. That is how it STARTS but it is only a step on a hard fought journey of self-discovery. Once you decide it is the path you want to follow you have to be willing to go all the way. There is no such thing as partial self-discovery. You are either giving in fully or you are not giving in at all. It’s like a girl deciding whether or not she likes other girls. Kissing is nice, but it isn’t enough to decide. Touching is great but again it is not enough to decide. Having another girl eat your pussy is wonderful yet it too is still not enough to decide. It is not until YOU eat pussy YOURSELF that you “learn” whether or not you like girls. If you find that you get just as excited or more so when you are giving instead of just receiving, it’s a really good indicator that you like girls lol.

So when you decide to throw off the chains / norms of society it is a big deal but you have to remember it is just the beginning of the journey. It takes a lot of patience and a lot of repetitiveness in order to reach your goal of being “you”. You will still feel all that self-consciousness, self-doubt, and reluctance when you attempt to be “you” for a long time. That is where the repetitiveness comes in. You just have to keep fighting through each day and not giving in to what others expect. Easiest way to do it is to take baby steps. Maybe wear your skirts a little shorter and/or tighter than you normally do. Maybe show a little more cleavage than you normally do. Do things like that until you realize that you are no longer “afraid” to do it. Then move on to whatever else YOU decide YOU want to do to be YOU. The key is to be able to own any labels that start getting thrown at you or around about you. When you can do that with any label in any situation, you are well on your way to being “you”. There is no greater aphrodisiac than being able to be your true self and allow that true self to roam free.


HAVE A SEXY DAY


Youlookcute2Bam 53M
17 posts
5/21/2018 11:04 pm

I enjoyed hearing your thoughts.. I skimmed most of these


Secretsforus2015 42M
29 posts
8/26/2016 2:22 pm

Nice thoughts Lexi.... I hope your ideas catch on in Charlottesville, on average it is a very conservative town. Message me sometime if you are in the mood for an erotic discussion, I always enjoy a lady who can express herself openly and inspire new creative thoughts!

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snowfox6916 70M  
2 posts
8/9/2016 8:45 am

Very intelligent and well said.


hotoldcock 81M
46 posts
8/9/2016 8:21 am

I has miss you in my THE FAMILY ROOM, last you time you has a great time, like I said you are very beautiful young lady, that enjoy life to full


gsxrlove 42M/38F  

7/20/2016 8:13 pm

Spot on


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