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Blogs > tickles4us > tickles

Smiling is going to get me in trouble  

tickles4us 62M
1602 posts
2/27/2016 8:37 pm

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Smiling is going to get me in trouble

I just got back from the grocery store a little while ago. Had to go get lettuce and parsley for my Daughters rabbit. Got some salad stuff too. Then I went to the checkout line which was short, just one lady and her in front of me. I must be funny looking or something cause the lady couldn't seem to stop looking at me. I did just give myself a haircut today but I know it wasn't that as I had my hat on and I keep my hair short, on the sides anyway, the top is getting kind of thin My favorite cashier was working tonight. She is kind of cute so I can't help but smile when I look at her. I always look people in the eyes when I am talking or interacting with them or for that matter when I walk past them. I saw her when I walked in the store tonight as she was at the register just inside the entry. She saw me as I came in and I was looking at her and smiling.

This cashier is clearly wanting to talk with me. All her body language is communicating her interest. I first saw her there at the store a few months ago and I smiled at her then as I liked the way she looked. Do you know what I mean? How when you see someone that looks appealing to you, it isn't necessarily that they are particularly good looking but that they have the right looks to make you feel good when you look at them. That's the way she looks to me. At the time though I didn't think anything more than she's cute I wonder what she's like... but she's way too young for me to worry about. So I just went about my business. But it seemed every time I was in the store when she was working I would be in her line. I wasn't looking to see who was at the register... I just looked for the short line and it always was her there or there was only one line open. I usually go to the store anywhere from 7-11 PM so the later it is the fewer lines there are open.

On the third time I was in her line she started talking to me. She was clearly a bit uncomfortable to just start talking to a stranger in the line but she was just about dying to say anything to get a conversation started. So I smiled a little bigger and chatted with her as I was bagging groceries she was sending down the counter to me. Now you might think she does that with everybody but she doesn't and when she does talk to the customers she isn't nervous and she isn't talking about herself either. She definitely is interested in me or I don't know a thing about reading people. I see her there about once every two weeks or so as I am rather random about when I go to the store. I was there last week and it was earlier in the day and I had just a few things. I was in a different line but when I went and put the basket away by the door as I was waiting for the people in front of me to get done, I saw her on the other register line and she saw me about the same time and we both smiled.

Well tonight she very clearly wanted to say something but there were a bunch of people in the line and a bagger there loading the groceries. She looked a bit distressed about not having much opportunity to say much. She did wish me a great evening. She has been saying that every time I've seen her since the third time when she started talking to me. It is in the way she says it as much as what she says.

I think she is about ready to ask me out. It wouldn't be the first time I've had that happen. My ex-wife actually asked me out several times before I finally said yes. I didn't want to go out with her because she was ten years younger than me and had only just turned eighteen.

I don't really know just how old this woman is as I'm not real good with guessing ages until someone gets around their 40's and up. If I had to guess I would say she is around her late twenties to late thirties but I could be way off. I guess if she does ask I would tell her my age and ask her hers as I'm just not thinking she is old enough to for me to be dating her or anything like that.

So smiling can get you in a bind sometimes but who knows
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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
2/29/2016 6:59 pm

 Keep smiling and don't wait for her to ask you out. Time's a-wastin'!
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tickles4us replies on 2/29/2016 9:16 pm:
I suppose I will have to stop by there when she's not busy

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
2/28/2016 10:53 am

 Sounds like you might be in! A smile can go a long way hugss V


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tickles4us replies on 2/28/2016 11:52 am:
Could be

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/28/2016 4:51 am

 These are interesting shopping encounters. I hope you keep us updated!


tickles4us replies on 2/28/2016 7:41 am:
Maybe, I'll see what happens. I can't see myself ever asking her out as my impression is that she is to young, so it would be in her hands. I can make it easier for her though. I would have to have a better idea of someones age before I would ask, when she looks to young to begin with. When you have such limited interaction it is hard to decide if they are someone you would want to get to know beyond the attractiveness you feel when you look at someone.

2trythis 60F
5109 posts
2/28/2016 3:33 am

 Sounds like it may be the beginning of an adventure rather than trouble. Or some fun trouble at the very least. Good luck with it.


tickles4us replies on 2/28/2016 7:29 am:
It could be an interesting adventure.

When I say trouble my biggest concern is if she isn't at least close to her 40's as I wasn't looking at her as a potential interest. I was just admiring an attractive woman when I was smiling at her. I don't want a big age difference as that usually also means an emotional maturity difference also, not to mention I'm looking for a life long partner/wife rather then any other short term type relationship. I feel a large age difference is not a good thing as it doesn't really work out so well when I croak and leave a woman behind that is in her forties, fifties or even sixties. So I'm reluctant to get involved with someone very much younger. I'm definitely not looking to be a daddy figure.

On the other hand it could be she is just lonely and wants someone to have a good time with for a while, but I'm feeling an awful lot of emotions from her.

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