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When Meeting Someone For Your First Intimate Encounter???
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First, you must actually meet in a safe mutual location with really no expectation of sex at that time. Endless email, pix, calls do not really make the best introductions. Look into each others eyes, listen carefully to each other to see where and what this relationship is to each party. Body language speaks volumes and can really fill in all the unchecked squares - or run the other way. We use age, certain body parts, build, and the most flattering pictures as qualifications for partners. Chemistry, mental ease, sensuality, or just being a real sex magnet can make a big difference. If none of this makes either party hot and at each then parts ways with a handshake and good feelings. No harm, no foul. If this looks like a good deal, then I'm looking for a date in a neutral, private, safe place for both parties in a motel/hotel for at least a few times. Relax and enjoy! After that, well we are both consenting adults.
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i don't have any objection in hosting,i've done it before,but it all depends on the relations your looking for,if it's only sexual encounters,then i'd go to a motel,but if it's for a long term relation,i'd like to host and cook her a home made diner,to sweep her of her feet. 
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Thank you joy for commenting. Seems like we have the same approach when it comes to this matter.
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I don't have a preference. I've done all 3 options and am open to whatever makes my partner most comfortable because if they aren't comfortable its not going to be fun for anyone.
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I usually like to host. I feel more comfortable in my surroundings, I feel if your looking for a long term it's more intimate than a motel. If you just want to fuck than a mutual site is more than adequate!
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A mutual agreed location,,neither home. Sex that would depend on the minute; but sex is not expected.
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It is good to have both partners comfortable. I would think it would make the experience better, Thank you for commenting
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Mutual location public. Always still a chance she's a nut. LOL!
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Nearly all of my first intimate encounters have been at a mutual location.
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Absolutely, a nice hotel, with room service and a great big hot tub, with maybe a casino downstairs for in-between times. post 3982980
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A mutual location usually makes the most sense until you have developed trust. That being said I wouldn't say no if one of the other two options were required!...lol
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As others have commented and my feelings on it; get to know someone and as a rule meet on neutral ground first time. I tend to trust my intuition and some times there are the exceptions that get invited to my place but its rare. Leann
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Mutual location is best for a first meet. Then see how it goes and how we get along, if we trust each other, then take things from there.
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For me, I have no choice. I can't host because I live with my folks trying to take care of my mom while she has her cancer. So I have no choice, I have to either have her host or find a neutral location like a hotel. And I don't have a problem with that. But in order to make things easier, I normally prefer to have it at a neutral location in order to make things easier and not have my partner worry. If I had a woman to share it with. Which I don't. Great, now I'm bummed. Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent 
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A hotel, while cliche, is so for a reason. It is what works and what is best in the beginning of a new intimate engagement. I hope and I pray for a Hester to win just one more "A", the sadder but wiser girl for me.
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