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When Meeting Someone For Your First Intimate Encounter???
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I do not host myself for various reasons. I have met in neutral locations a couple of times which typically is just a lets meet up and set up another date to play if we want. But I have gone to other people's homes first if we have talked for a while and things seem okay.
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I agree meeting in public is best. What if they were the complete opposite than you expected..lol Thank you so much for commenting!!
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if we want sex who cares but not at each others homes however for me before I have thought about sex we are already in a relationship before even our first date because we would have had hours and hours of conversation ....so on that note first sex has to happen away from of course a family unit that would know whats going on!  THank you so much for commenting!
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I say a mutual location, people live in this oh love at first site or turn on at first world, I say safety at first site
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Most comfortable for me is to talk a good bit before meeting in person, so that some level of trust is built up to carry into the meet, which I strongly prefer be a public place. If it goes well, I will host or we can do a hotel room.
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I am comfortable meeting at their place or mutual location. Most often it is at a mutual location. Cheers! 
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I agree fully with you to meet with no expectations at mutual spot. Then when you decide to become intimate an hotel or motel works best. When would you like to meet me LOL
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Men don't usually face the dangers that women encounter when meeting strangers. However, bad things have happened to men when meeting someone new for the first time. I never rush into anything when I meet women and couples online. I get to know them very well....not just sexual information, but also info about their everyday lives. I have a two trusted friends who are very discreet. When I am meeting a woman or couple for the first time, I always tell them who I'm meeting with. Should I become a victim of a nutcase, my friends have the info that can be used to catch the people. I learned this from a couple many years ago. I've found that a lot of men, women and couples do the same thing..... Most couples that I've played with usually host. I do host at times, and I've also used hotel rooms.
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familiar/mutual location would be better option.. leading to composed interaction that culminate in mutually satisfying encounter
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for me, whatever is more comfortable for the girl, but if I can choose I would prefer in my home. besitos Thank you for commenting
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wherever the lady decides and feels comfortable with.
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When I got divorced, I stayed in the house with my then 18 yo daughter for a year and a bit, before it was sold. She met all my dates, those who came home with me. I met women in hotels when I was travelling to their town. If they were local, mine or theirs was just as good, and cheaper. I can understand if there are young kids in someones house, the limitations. I did not introduce any of my dates to my younger one, and no dating at the times she was staying. I do not have a standard way to meet people. Whatever suits each case.
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As others have commented and my feelings on it; get to know someone and as a rule meet on neutral ground first time. I tend to trust my intuition and some times there are the exceptions that get invited to my place but its rare. Leann
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It depends on how well we got to know each other before deciding to get intimate. Of course, as a man, I have less to worry about. 
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Mutual location.
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I prefer to host so I don't have to drag all my meds with me. AB
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You are a wise woman Jeanie! I have not met anyone for anything but lunch, but agree with your thoughts.
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wherever she is comfortable, I prefer a hotel.
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I agree with what you have to say. I have been slated as well. Thank you for commenting!
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The ladies that I have met on her we were at a place to eat and had a good time. No sex with two of them at that time the other lady we had some fun in her car with a lot of hot playing. My gf we met for the first time in a hotel for a night of very hot sex! Butch Thank you for commeting BUtch
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Mutual neutral location is my preference always
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I am a believer in the Old Fashioned Three date Concept... I like the courtship and flirting and anticipation. When I Feel the time is right (Three dates is not a fixed target) I suggest dinner someplace a bit distant from her home. I suggest that since we are dining late - and having a bit of champagne - that We might consider getting a room. I don't believe in Quid Pro Quo sex. Dinner means dinner --- I want someone eager to spend the night --- if that makes sense.
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Neutral place
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I have a great place and it's fun to fantasize about having fun here, but I would not actually propose such an adventure. If I had the opportunity to spend the night with a woman I would select the most luxurious hotel available. I want room service, a private Jacuzzi, and a bed that feels like angel wings. 
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Meet at a mutual place
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