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When Meeting Someone For Your First Intimate Encounter???
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Dinner and drinks first, maybe even a few dates before moving on to a physical relationship.It's nice to be able to converse with your mate otherwise it's just a physical act and doesn't mean all that much. Definitely a nice hotel until there's mutual trust.
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I agree with you!!
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I prefer a mutual agreed location for coffee, or lunch on a first meeting. Odds are that will not have sex on that meeting but I also will not rule it out. A hotel or motel room in a moderately priced hotel or motel for the first sexual encounter. If we like each other after that then we can discuss other options for me possibly hosting or not. I have burned in the past and I am looking for a possible relationship are getting to know each other.
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Maybe so.... First meet is at a nice hotel with room service and nice bathroom having nice shower or extra big tub.  Just nice
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Mutual comfort and safety are most important to a mutual time and location for adult pleasures and fun
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I prefer to meet in a mutual location until the trust is built between both parties. Motels and hotels are my choices so you can relax and enjoy easier than entertaining at either of the others home or apartment.
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Always a Mutual Location... 
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Not that I have been lucky enough to do either my preference would be a public first meet then a neutral meeting location like you discussed....
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Nearly all of my first intimate encounters have been at a mutual location.
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Absolutely, a nice hotel, with room service and a great big hot tub, with maybe a casino downstairs for in-between times. post 3982980
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I prefer a mutual agreed location for coffee, or lunch on a first meeting. Odds are that will not have sex on that meeting but I also will not rule it out. A hotel or motel room in a moderately priced hotel or motel for the first sexual encounter. If we like each other after that then we can discuss other options for me possibly hosting or not. I have burned in the past and I am looking for a possible relationship are getting to know each other.
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Maybe so.... First meet is at a nice hotel with room service and nice bathroom having nice shower or extra big tub. Just nice
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Somewhere where we both feel comfortable. A neutral ground would be fine if you felt uncertain coming to my place. It would not feel right to go to your place where you have young children. And it would not sound right if you had asked me to come to your place.
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like you Jeanie, I prefer a hotel until I get to know them better.
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It is just a safe idea for both parties. Thank yoy so much for stopping by and commenting
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I think a mutual location is best
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Without comfort, the sex won't be good. Gotta be comfortable and build that trust as you suggested, indeed. So neutral ground is ideal and yes, a hotel would be neutral. Me, well, the last time I hooked up with somebody from this site.... well we just did it out in the streets; neutral enough for ya? 
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I agree with you Lee..THank you for commenting
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Hotel is probably best because you never know what is going to happen.
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It looks like you have this figured out babe. For me...the whole idea of meeting someone I met online frightens me to my core. However, it is the new world. If I can get comfortable with a woman I meet here before I actually meet her in person that's a big plus. I'm so afraid of showing up somewhere and not seeing the person I hope to see. Of course, I want her to be comfortable with me too. Then, I would choose a neutral highly visible location like a casino as the first meeting place. Does that sound good?
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I trust my judgement when I meet people and I do not host. Either they do, or it's a no go. Teens in da haus!
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a mutual agreed upon location is best to meet, met someone once, all she wanted was to go to a hotel and get it on, we chatted, then parted ways, and after chatting a few more time, she still wanted a room and said goodbye
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Before you meet there should be a good conversation about what each person is looking for and pics should be shared to see if the metal attraction is there ..if they won't show you who they are then they are hiding someone ..sex on the first meet depends if you are so in awhile over the person that you just need to please him or let him please you..usually this will decide if you will also see this person again ..
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A mutual location usually makes the most sense until you have developed trust. That being said I wouldn't say no if one of the other two options were required!...lol
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Mutually agreed upon hotel/motel.
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