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When Meeting Someone For Your First Intimate Encounter???
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I agree fully with you to meet with no expectations at mutual spot. Then when you decide to become intimate an hotel or motel works best. When would you like to meet me  LOL
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Men don't usually face the dangers that women encounter when meeting strangers. However, bad things have happened to men when meeting someone new for the first time. I never rush into anything when I meet women and couples online. I get to know them very well....not just sexual information, but also info about their everyday lives. I have a two trusted friends who are very discreet. When I am meeting a woman or couple for the first time, I always tell them who I'm meeting with. Should I become a victim of a nutcase, my friends have the info that can be used to catch the people. I learned this from a couple many years ago. I've found that a lot of men, women and couples do the same thing..... Most couples that I've played with usually host. I do host at times, and I've also used hotel rooms.
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familiar/mutual location would be better option.. leading to composed interaction that culminate in mutually satisfying encounter
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for me, whatever is more comfortable for the girl, but if I can choose I would prefer in my home. besitos
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When I got divorced, I stayed in the house with my then 18 yo daughter for a year and a bit, before it was sold. She met all my dates, those who came home with me. I met women in hotels when I was travelling to their town. If they were local, mine or theirs was just as good, and cheaper. I can understand if there are young kids in someones house, the limitations. I did not introduce any of my dates to my younger one, and no dating at the times she was staying. I do not have a standard way to meet people. Whatever suits each case.
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It depends on how well we got to know each other before deciding to get intimate. Of course, as a man, I have less to worry about. 
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Mutual location.
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I prefer to host so I don't have to drag all my meds with me. AB No Bozos
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5/12/2017 4:46 am |
You are a wise woman Jeanie! I have not met anyone for anything but lunch, but agree with your thoughts. Visit my blog @ rskinney62 & have a SEXY day!!
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5/12/2017 5:23 am |
wherever she is comfortable, I prefer a hotel.
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The ladies that I have met on her we were at a place to eat and had a good time. No sex with two of them at that time the other lady we had some fun in her car with a lot of hot playing. My gf we met for the first time in a hotel for a night of very hot sex! Butch
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Mutual neutral location is my preference always (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Neutral place 
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I have a great place and it's fun to fantasize about having fun here, but I would not actually propose such an adventure. If I had the opportunity to spend the night with a woman I would select the most luxurious hotel available. I want room service, a private Jacuzzi, and a bed that feels like angel wings.  My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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Meet at a mutual place
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First, you must actually meet in a safe mutual location with really no expectation of sex at that time. Endless email, pix, calls do not really make the best introductions. Look into each others eyes, listen carefully to each other to see where and what this relationship is to each party. Body language speaks volumes and can really fill in all the unchecked squares - or run the other way. We use age, certain body parts, build, and the most flattering pictures as qualifications for partners. Chemistry, mental ease, sensuality, or just being a real sex magnet can make a big difference. If none of this makes either party hot and at each then parts ways with a handshake and good feelings. No harm, no foul. If this looks like a good deal, then I'm looking for a date in a neutral, private, safe place for both parties in a motel/hotel for at least a few times. Relax and enjoy! After that, well we are both consenting adults.
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i don't have any objection in hosting,i've done it before,but it all depends on the relations your looking for,if it's only sexual encounters,then i'd go to a motel,but if it's for a long term relation,i'd like to host and cook her a home made diner,to sweep her of her feet. 
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I don't have a preference. I've done all 3 options and am open to whatever makes my partner most comfortable because if they aren't comfortable its not going to be fun for anyone.
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I usually like to host. I feel more comfortable in my surroundings, I feel if your looking for a long term it's more intimate than a motel. If you just want to fuck than a mutual site is more than adequate!
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A mutual agreed location,,neither home. Sex that would depend on the minute; but sex is not expected.
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Whatever makes you comfortable is fine by me. After all, in any encounter when people are at ease it makes for better communication and you can focus on the person you're meeting. NO Brainer...
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First meet for me is a public location, place to eat, mall, something, first sexual encounter is at a motel, because like you say it's more safe, and knowing my luck if I let someone come to my house that first time, I'd wind up with a fatal attraction scenario
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I like a mutual location . Feel it is best and safest for both involved. I am also a hotel guy.
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I would agree on the hotel. I get it safety wise, but the is also something naughty about sex in a hotel.
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