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reality of receiving pleasure.. Well guys, I will tell u that when I read profiles 9 out of ten specifically say how much they love eating us out, making us cum, and can do it for hours. Then repeating it in our onversations! Reality is, after a few minutes, most get so hard and horny,they cant stand it or wait any longer, thwy stop to fuck & cum themselves. This happens way too often! alot of guys still think women cum 1 or 2 ways. Period!! Thats a huge turn off. Another reality, not one man has "eaten, licked or sucked" for even 30 minutes. It transfers to his hand, fingers or us, the ladies, getting it done. I do understand how exhausting it is. I sympathize & empathize .I give bjs several times during each encounter, when I'm with someone . Each time, the duration get longer. But i enjoy it and know u will cum. Plus, if i have more than one other person involved, especially men..it is ALOT OF ORAL TIME for the lady. I'm not complaining. I just wish guys were honest & realistic when telling us about their skills. Every time I see or here them talking about their super oral pleasuring skills for women, I roll my eyes and say, "yeah right. I've heard that before!". I'm more concerned with do u have the skills to get the job done via mouth, hand, toy whatever. I agree with McBlondy again, when a man can, several times, I definitely want more of them. Unfortunately, ur not going to really know unless ur doing it. Talk is cheap, action is gold.  I'd rather see someone say...I will use my tongue, lips, mouth to drive u.crazy building u up for 20 minutes and add my hand to make u explode! To me, it says " I know what is needed to get the job done, how to tease & build me up and still be realistic. That could be a whole 25 minutes of me time. Hot damn!! Let me clarify. There are men who are very good at what they do. Some right from the start. Some who take direction, like B said in the last post, and then find places you didn't know existed or make you cum so many times you didnt know you cum that much. You know, the ones who get so excited when they can make me squirt, that he keeps doing it over and over and over. Until you literally run dry everywhere! I literally have to down a gallon of water cause your mouth is so dry u cant swallow or speak!! Those are wonderful, delightful, erotic exceptionally skilled men. You rock my world.>>! Is it just me, but after experiences like that, I just can't get enough of him. It's like a drug addiction. OMG!! Anyone else experience this? I read in a time magazine article a few years ago about how orgasms releases a hormone/chemicals similiar to oxycotin, I think, that actually bond people together.  |
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That is quite an awesome description. Hope u had a happy july 4th.
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You're probably right. I'm no expert, but I think with BJ's, there will be a lot of sucking going on to break up/negate actual tongue licking. I think with eating out pussy and licking clit, there is probably a fatigue level that sets in a lot quicker for men. Not that I get much action, but I think a mix of performance styles helps, although I'm mildly aware that fingering technique is easier. But after a certain age, the knuckle joints play up too 
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I'll be honest, I've never been one to start bragging about how good I am at something in bed..Cause that is usually the first indication to a woman that I may not have a clue as to what I'm actually doing. But I have always been good at taking direction. Directions like: here, there, not too hard, harder, faster, deeper.. now, get out! I know this is is definitely a sore spot for you, cause I've seen you go on this rant before in another group.. In fact, I think it was one of your rants about this topic that sparked my first blog postings here about men frustrating women on the site. Backpocket is right, most guys are like traveling snake oil salesmen.. most will say anything to get your attention, and most who have a picture of their penis are pretty much the personification of that picture. nothing more, nothing less.
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I agree with AliceDallas!
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I agree with you even though I have not experienced it first hand myself,lol. I do however have to laugh at these guys who claim hours of oral for a woman... they are certainly better men then I. I give it my best and sure do love doing it..but my tongue does get tired. I tend to suck and nibble the clot and lips more so I can use my tongue in between. Never thought about the time of giving it just goes till I have nothing left. You sound like you have had the "special" guy/s from time to time.. I am happy you at least got them. Best wishes and hopefully with this post being so old you have found the once in a lifetime guy since.
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3/6/2015 7:32 pm |
well i definitely have some skillful friends in my corner and I greatly appreciate them. They keep everything in working order!! As far as 'the one' or 'once in a lifetime guy', no. I actually have taken a break from all the BS. In time, I'm patient!
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