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Blogs > RideACowboy3021 > Yippie-yi-yo-ki-yay

Filly Whispering 101  

RideACowboy3021 62M
94 posts
4/22/2014 9:03 am

Last Read:
9/27/2014 8:08 pm
Filly Whispering 101

Sometimes the best way to get a filly to let you ride her is to just be her friend first.

So I was going through some blogs while waiting for some stuff at work and in the space of ten minutes I read three different women complaining about the same sort of thing. E-mails that read like a form letter or have less than ten words in them and two of them are “wanna fuck”.

Guys, common you have to know better. The women on here are not hookers on a street corner waiting for you to flash that winning smile and some twenties. They are, for the most part, sophisticated intelligent women who are looking for a little fun or excitement in their lives. If you want a woman to read past the first couple of lines you write:

a) Write more than a few words.

b) Write something that tells her you actually read her profile and what about her made you want to write.

c) I know guys think this works, but for most of us it really doesn’t, don’t ask if they “wanna fuck” the first time you send them a message.

d) Don’t send out a form letter, the women on this site can see right through them.

e) Be open to rejection… the women who tell you “No” are not doing it to hurt you, they are doing it so that you don’t spend energy chasing after someone who just doesn’t find you attractive.

f) Don’t be afraid to make friends… just FRIENDS, on this site. There are some great and fun people on here. It’s not always about sex. (hard to believe… I know.)

g) Be open and HONEST.

h) Be yourself and have fun…

I know I have missed some important tips or pointers… feel free to add more.
Save a , ride a cowboy!!
ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
4/24/2014 2:14 pm

 Guys know this, they just (for the most part) can't manage to refrain from wanting too much too soon. The guy that can refrain will get a much longer ride on the filly.

BTW, Big & Rich's video for "Save a Horse, Ride a Cowboy" was so sexy. It wasn't the hit here in the Northeast that it should have been.
"Don't count the days, make the days count"


RideACowboy3021 replies on 4/24/2014 4:24 pm:
Have to admit I've never seen the video... I'm going to have to watch that now.

It is a patience thing... but I can understand their point of view sometimes too. It's all a balancing act.

2trythis 60F
5109 posts
9/27/2014 4:52 pm

 Wish this info could be post on the LesbianPersonals home page! May save some time and frustrations for those who join and believe the "get laid tonight" hype.


RideACowboy3021 replies on 9/27/2014 8:07 pm:
Not sure it would help to have it posted... some guys just don't get it!

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