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"Lost for words"
"Lost for words" There's so much to say, but there are times when we don't know what to say. So we say nothing and lose a chance of a good opportunity! Or there is times when we feel we got something to say and say the first thing on our minds and messing things up. I, myself, got to know what's going on, or what the conversation is about before I respond. There was times I agree to disagree and had no idea what was being said! But In my defense, I felt like I said something. But that's not good, just comment on something I don't have a clue about. I know some women hate shy men, so most men would comment about something, and sometimes say the wrong things, and they don't get a second chance, Or we can't find the words, or intimated by the woman, we should listen. Then give feed back, that is a good approach! But there are some people who want the spot light and don't want to share the stage. They don't listen, and always doing the taking, because they feel they are always right, and the careless of what your views on things. They are not lost for words, and would give you a double dose of their opinion. They are wrong! Everyone hates a know it all! Instead of the say "Let go my Eggo." They should say, "Let go my ego". But to everyone else, we are human and there are times when nothing comes to mind. Do these things. Listen to every word that's being said, form you ideas on what's being said. If appropriate give your feedback, ideas or opinion on what said. Give a yes or no answer or a agree or disagree answer. but explain why you agree or disagree. The same thing if you go out and see the girl of your dreams. Walk up yo her and say "Hi", or compliment what's she wearing. If she don't comment and walk away, you tried. But, if she say thanks and start a conversation, You then might have a chance of a lifetime! Then you got something to talk about! Then your no longer, "Lost for words'! Riddle time : What can be seen once in a minute, twice in a moment, and never in a thousand years? ans : the letter "m" What word is written incorrectly in a dictionary, ans: The word incorrectly. |
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In my opinion, some of the greatest wisdom is knowing you don't have all the answers. And keeping your mind open on the things you think you do know. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Always listen carefully and remember that sometimes it's best to say nothing at all. ~~Anais Nin~~
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This is a great blog today my friend and I totally agree with you here, you should always listen first. And there are so many people that think they know EVERYTHING but in reality they really don't. I hope you have a great weekend..
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