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The Bitch Factor
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The Bitch Factor I have been here for about a month now and I have interacted with a good amount of people. Some are awesomely cool and far away, but most are in state and challenging. The challenge that I paused to blog about is the "Bitch Factor". Whenever a woman does not instantly accept the sexual approaches of a man on this site, chances are that he will fling the word "Bitch" at her as if it is a weapon. Does this make him feel better because she had the nerve to deflate his little hard-on? I have something specific I am searching for and if a person has not taken the time to review my profile, then I think I have every right to ditch the chat request. For examples, I have ZERO interest in talking to couples or the guy from a couple. The last request I denied did indeed result in a “Bitch” comment in a second request. I'm just curious about this, because every time I log on I get called a bitch by at least 1 guy. I never realized that success on this site depends on your willingness to become a "come one and all" service to me. If you have had any contact with me, you would know that I am pleasant and mannerable in my communications, as this is a sign of intelligence. What I want to hear about is your experience with the "Bitch Factor" and what the situation was that called for it to come into play. Guys, if you use it, you can confess your transgression. Ladies, let me know if your experiences are like mine. Yours in pleasure, Jade  |
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How sad. I had a friend in high school that hit on every woman he saw. He even worked as a grocery bagger at HEB to hit on middle aged women. At clubs, if he got turned down for a dance, his retort to rejection was the follow-up, "Well I guess a blow job is out of the question..." I wasn't aware that he moved to Beaumont and opened up 100 profiles on LesbianPersonals. Geez...
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Not everyone has that retort, Just the loud ones who are stuck on themselves
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If the "B-word" is a weapon I would suggest it is a defensive one. Really even more of a shield than a true weapon. Think about it this way, one of the most immature ways people have to prop themselves up when they're feeling vulnerable is to drag someone else down. The theory is that if they can label you then they can marginalize you, and thereby diminish your importance, lessen the value of both you and your opinion, and soften the impact of your rejection. Additionally they can then shift the blame for the rejection from themselves onto you, and thereby artificially repair their wounded egos. It's classic "sour grapes". Once you recognize it for what it is it becomes instantly dismissable. Sticks and stones. Here's a thought. The next time somebody drops the "B-bomb", accept it as a compliment. Realize that the reason they had to resort to it is because they were intimidated by your awesomeness and they felt the need to shield themselves from your radiance. If all this is of little consolation, I leave you with the words of a truly magnificent friend of mine from Victoria, TX. "Damned right I'm a bitch. Beautiful, Intelligent, Talented, Confident, and Headstrong!!" And she is, too!!
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In my time on LesbianPersonals, I have met or spoken with many women and have been ignored by countless others. Many have become friends and lovers or just friends. I'm constantly amazed by the stories they've told me about some of the guys on here. I've never had the urge to spout vile at them because they didn't respond or downright rejected me and I'm always at a loss to understand their logic. The first requirement when using any dating site is to convince someone else that you really are worthy of their time and someone they should want to meet. If they can't understand that simple thought, they must really be idiots. It's not too difficult: Be polite, be patient, don't be a jerk, be an adult and be honest. But there is one thing to be thankful for Ladies... When you get these kinds of responses, at least it allows you to quickly file them under Asshole and not waste any more time on them. Even better, you've found out their true colors without meeting the jerks. LesbianPersonals is still a minefield of jackasses you must walk through to find a good one, but at least they've reduced the number of mines.
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I don't get it often. but I have learnt that if I do reply a simply polite no thank you or i'm so sorry but i'm not interested. then suddenly they go from your sooo hot, gorgeous, beautiful to you fuckin bitch or fat cow! so I stopped being polite about it and don't e-mail them back...except for rare occasions where I just say thank you! and suddenly I hardly have any incidents with it. ..just join me on my blog bustybettyboop and still looking for some hot,sexy,creative contestants for my next contest...come join us! need a blog mentor or want to be one? 
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