120 posts 7/26/2015 10:49 am
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The 5 Best Positions For Orgasm
This one's for the ladies 
#1 Missionary With Pillow
Try putting a pillow under your butt and either wrapping your legs around him or lifting them over his shoulders, this way you change the boring missionary position into ooh la orgasm.
#2 Doggy Do Right
Doggy style is great, but if you really want to explode, instead of getting on all fours, lay down on your stomach and lift your butt slightly.
#3 Bridge
This is relaxing and allows you to climax easily. Lay on your back as in missionary position while he lays on his side facing you. Swing both legs over his hip and allow him to enter you.
#4 You Make Me Want To La La, In The Kitchen
Take it to the kitchen and jump up on the table. Lay on your back, prop yourself up on your hands or elbows at the edge and place one, or two, legs on his shoulders. Make sure the table is as high as his waist. He can grab onto you and thrust, and with his other hand caress and stimulate your body.
#5 Reverse Cowgirl With A Twist
Everyone loves the Reverse Cowgirl. Women love it for the control and the angle at which the penis enters her. Men love the visual and allowing her to take charge. Try putting your feet together though, instead of straddling him. Place them between his legs and then go to town.
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2811 posts 7/26/2015 11:16 am |
Oh if only it were that easy for me. I can't orgasm at all.
I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel!
Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!
blademaster70 replies on 7/26/2015 12:41 pm:
Hmmmm, did some looking and came across this info. You might want to give it a shot
The first and most important lesson is to practice developing a balance of tension and relaxation during sexual activity. But, my women clients ask, how can they be both tense and relaxed at the same time? It's a good question, and here is my two-part answer:
How to Have an Orgasm Step 1: Tense Up
The type of tension that helps women reach orgasm is muscle tension (myotonia). Many women have the mistaken impression that they should relax and "just lie there" because they've heard that relaxation during sex is important. But it turns out that muscle tension is often necessary for an orgasm. In my experience, the majority of women learn to have their first orgasm by incorporating a fair amount of leg, abdominal, and buttock tension.
Not surprisingly, women report that the most orgasm-inducing muscle contractions are in their lower pelvis. These are the same muscles you squeeze to stop the flow of urine midstream (a conscious contraction of this group is called a Kegel exercise).
What is the connection between tensing muscle groups and having an orgasm? Arousal. Contracting (or tensing) certain muscles increases blood flow throughout the body and often to the genital area. And arousal, of course, is the road map that helps lead most women to orgasm.
How to Have an Orgasm Step 2: Wind Down
So, where's the relaxation part of this equation? In the brain. During sex, a woman should be focused simply on feeling the sensations of the stimulation.
Have a hard time relaxing? Think of a Times Square billboard in which words stream into view from the left-hand side to the right edge, and then disappear off the screen. During sex, many women find it helpful to program their own Times Square news crawl with a repetitive mantra such as "I can take as long as I want" or "This really feels great" on their mental silent radio. It keeps the brain occupied -- but with a thought that will encourage sexual arousal rather than with a nervous, negative thought that might decrease arousal.
After this first lesson, I send my clients away with a homework assignment. During sex, they are to tense up their muscles and let their minds go silent. This technique takes practice, but it can work over time. And more often than not, my clients return to a future session with their own good news to report.
Can't Orgasm? The Problem Could Be Medical
Therapy can help some women having difficulty with orgasm. For others, a medical condition or side effects from a medication may be causing the problem. Visit your doctor to rule out these causes. Options for treatment include the following:
An FDA-approved device called Eros helps increase blood flow to the genitals.
Over-the-counter creams may increase sensitivity and help a woman reach orgasm, although these are not FDA-approved. As always, talk to your doctor before starting any treatment. |
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2811 posts 7/26/2015 1:20 pm |
Thanks but when I barely even have sex, that really doesn't help. But I can't even make myself. Don't even know what it feels like. and going to a doctor, no thanks. Don't need the embarrassment.
I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel!
Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!
blademaster70 replies on 7/26/2015 2:49 pm:
Your welcome and I can understand not wanting to see a doctor about it. I hope one day that it just happens out of the blue for you while you're having some hot sex. At 28, you've got lot's of time. But, yes, I know sooner would be better than later |
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