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Ok...I'm not paying for the possibility of being with you.
Ok...I'm not paying for the possibility of being with you. Alright...so there is a member here. No I will not say names or out this person. But I will say she is popular here and she cams a lot, has over 3000 + fans and...she lives somewhat close to me. So I decided to say hello, introduce myself, and tell her how I thought she was attractive and that I wanted to see if the two of us could meet, since we were close and local to each other. Her reply (when I asked her on her cam)... "Sure, you we could, but I only get together with members of my fan club, which if you subscribe to it, we could POSSIBLY get together." Ummm, yeah....but no thank you. First off...I'm not a fan. I was legitimately asking if you would like to go out sometime. But then again, I was stupid enough for asking on her while she was on her cam. I should have instant messaged her instead. Second...to become a fan club member, I have to pay 14.95 a month...to be a fan. Ummm, no. I don't have money to be dishing out when I got bills to pay, that would be irresponsible of me to do that when I have more pressing matters. Finally...if I did that, then IF we POSSIBLY did get together, wouldn't that be in a sense...? Wouldn't I be paying you for the services? Look, I'm not turning my nose down on . If people want to pay for that, fine, no one is hurting anyone if both parties want to consent to that. But...that's just not me. I don't want to have to pay for sex. I never have. I'd rather it be special. That it mean something...shared between two people, intimate. And that's not saying it can't be if you pay for it, but to me, it cheapens things. I'd rather be with someone because they WANT to be with me for just ME being ME, and I want to be with them for who they are, not because I paid them for it. Don't get me wrong. I have no beefs with . It's just that I don't want to pay for sex. And....I'm a cheap bastard. LOL! Ok, I'm kidding on that last part. Seriously though, I'd rather be with someone without paying for sex, and then use the money so we can go to dinner and the two of us can enjoy a nice meal. Or we go somewhere nice, like a show. And then we can enjoy ourselves and have a nice time, get to know each other. Develop a relationship. Not by paying for it, and then an hour or two later, be on my way and leave, feeling used. Because to me, that's how I would feel...that I not only used her, but I was used as well because I paid her for her time. So with all due respect, but I just want to be with someone because they want to be with me. Not have to pay you for your time. That's just not me nor do I want to be like that. So thank you...but no thank you. I will not be paying you to be a "FAN". That's another thing...why am I going to pay you to be a fan? Why would anyone want to pay someone else to be a fan? If I'm a fan, wouldn't you want that person to be your fan because of WHO YOU ARE? Not because I had to pay for the pleasure of being a fan? What kind of twisted logic is that? Which means if you are reading this blog, and you're a fan, should I be charging each and every one of you for the pleasure of reading my infinite wisdom and knowledge I drop into your lives? NO! You get the gift of Agent J for free my lovelies! LOL! (Ok, seriously, if I get anything out of my blog, entertainment, knowledge, laughter, wisdom, I would feel blessed from that alone, so if you get anything out of my blog, awesome, kudos for me, but honestly, I'm not banking on it.) In short, no I'm not paying to be a fan. Now if you want to meet because you want to meet with me, to get to know me, awesome. But I'm not paying you to be a fan, I'm not paying you for your services to POSSIBLY meet you. Nuh uh, it's not happening, so sorry, do not pass Go, do not collect $200 dollars. And that's all I have to say about that. Thanks for reading. Peace. |
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She was clearly the epitome of women being for sexual entertainment. You don't invite a hooker to marry you , nor to go out with you later. Yes, you should have privately emailed the woman, but still, she is working, taking money from men. That's her self appointed job. But I noticed , and wonder if anyone else noticed, the similarity to what males do when they want the company of a woman [and really, really should stop doing it]. They "Pay" for dinners, they "Pay" for drinks. They "Pay" to entertain the woman.......when really all he has to do is show up , and if she is into him, they get down to fun stuff. Why would anyone want to pay someone else to be a fan?..... Exactly. They are suckers if they do pay. Yes? If I'm a fan, wouldn't you want that person to be your fan because of WHO YOU ARE? ... Good question. Now extend that question to inviting ANY woman out, to spend time with you. If she accepts the invitation, it should be because of "Who you are", NOT, what you can buy her. She can buy her own drinks and food, etc. Not because I had to pay for the pleasure of being a fan? .... You should not be giving a woman money directly, nor indirectly , to spend time with you, at all. Although there is nothing wrong with the business transaction of sex for money, with a professional. But you don't invite them out later.
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Ok why bring it up? U have all these women who u can see without paying. Somethings are better left alone .
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This commentary always falls on deaf ears, but here goes anyway: This woman is here for her benefit, not strictly for yours. She gets to decide what that means. And she has thousands of fans, so she's probably doing something right. This is one woman. With thousands of men demanding her attention, and getting angry when they don't get it. Do the math! So you want to use her time to "meet." You have some notion that she a) has an infinite amount of time to meet every guy who shows interest or b) will magically realize that you are the man of her dreams. You will call her "attractive," and thus your unique and generous complement will entitle you to her time and attention. It's likely that you have a drastic misunderstanding of what it is she might want and/or an inflated expectation that you must be it. This is common -- very common. Paying for sex/attention/fandom is the only honest and dignified way to address the discrepancy between what a woman wants and how little the average man cares about what a woman wants. Most people want sex to be special. But when a thousand guys assume a woman is free to be "special" with them just because it's what they want, it's not special - it's a job.
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sorry but I have agree with you on that one I have never seen woman pay guys on cam just to get to know them why is that ?? OH wait I have seen it I have one that did it only to not show up we do text but nothing more has came from it is this being a flake on there part or what ? I see her on line a lot but when I text her I get no response !!! and if I'm lucky enough to get one she says she doesn't sit on the dam thing hummmm ? any way I agree I will not join a fan club for some cheap slut to get money and that becoming more the norm on here .
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But hey, if you want to pay ME money, I'm cool with that. Because I'm broke. I'll even take change. I'll be the spare change gigolo! Yeah, that's the ticket! j/k
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