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Why are YOU on AFF???
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Why are YOU on AFF??? [post 724581] In Hampmeisters blog Penguin Crossing, he asked why people were on LesbianPersonals, stating "I'll ask a wider question or six. Why are you here? Has it changed since you signed up? If so how often does it change? Is it sexual in nature? Have you found what you want here? And since that's only five, what's the flying speed of an unladen swallow....oh, never mind.... " I thought it was a good question, and being in a sightly philosophical mood, I thought I would answer it. Ah young grasshoppa! the questions you ask! (caution be aware of attacking elipses) I found LesbianPersonals at 3 AM once when I was howling at the moon. Back in the ancient days....when a GIRL could get a lot as a standard member. Before videos, before blogs, with the ancient chat system.... I was struggling with entering the world of dating after 20 years and finding the Match n yahoooo varieties just weren't cutting it. For the most part guys there were still looking for the perfect, athletic and toned size 2 (size 2's i have nothing against you (other than jealousy) but bottom line is I'm a big old bbw with a big old bottom) (and a couple of bodacious T's) Speaking of BodaciousT, that was my original log in name. Went out a few times, just learning the ropes (no, NOT those ropes-thats on ALT) and had a virtuous moment, and decided I couldn't reconcile myself with being on LesbianPersonals. So I quit.... Then late one evening, the moon began calling to me again, and as I howled from my lonely bed, I had a sacred vision, as LesbianPersonals wafted through my brain....and I signed up again! I think I became a little more sophisticated at reading through the BS in folks, but I find my reasons for being here change with the given day. Sometimes I hope of meeting prince charming: Bad boy, 5:00 shadow, marvelous oral skills, all about ME not him, and hung like a blue whale. Oh, and religious and really wants one partner to settle down with and lives 15 minutes away from me. Sometimes I want to be wild woman: I will pull out the camera and put on a public broadcast, and really get excited by the fact I am exciting a couple of hundred guys and couples, and wonder where this naughty slutwoman has been hiding the last forty some years. Sometimes I enjoy chatting on IM: It is amazing to see some of the BS, and can be amusing or arousing, depending on the mood. It is a little bit frightening to know that as a woman, I could literally have someone at my place within in a half hour 24/7/365....man woman, or beast...... If I'm not in a good frame of mind or have temporarily checked my better judgment.... hm...... could get pretty wild. I enjoy pretty wild fantasies when chatting with somebody from Timbuktu or the UK that I will never actually meet up with, so it is in essence very SAFE sex..... but again, I become a little more reserved the closer I get to home.....BTW local phone sex can be verrry dangerous Sometimes I find LesbianPersonals educational: for example, an area I was NOT comfortable with was giving blowjobs. I had some bad memories and experiences, and let self be rather intimidated by them. I actually watched a 'how to' video ....one that was actually educational, (well a porn star with a lisp told you all her favorite tricks) before it got into the big porn scene. I think the thing actually did help me overcome some issues though. Sometimes I want to meet Mr Right Sometimes I want to meet Mrs. Right Sometimes I want to meet Mr Wrong Sometimes I want to meet Mrs Wrong and sometimes I really have a desire to meet sick and wrong! ................................. But all that being said, I think the biggest thing I note is the actual friends I've made here. Blogging opens up a whole deeper dimension to people, and you get to begin to see what makes them tick. A few guys I went out with still keep and touch and update me on life, even though it didn't work between us. There are a few folks that I never plan on 'dating' from this site, but they have become good friends and confidants, and yahooooooooooooooooo kind of buds. With women,there are some friends who feel like old girlfriends, and you can tell your secrets to. Basically what I've found are a lot of good people, just looking for another way to take care of being lonely in a fast paced world. Be it through sexual stimulation, laughter, conversation, banter,sharing the load or whatever! So Grasshoppa you asked a good question. Hope you appreciate my answer... sorry I got so long winded this morning! WKTUT  |
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2/20/2007 7:41 pm |
And I was introduced to the site by a lady I was dating, who may well howl at the moon (given her alias on the mailing list I met her is Greywolf)....and you can get as long winded as you like, it's your blog.  I'll play David Carradine.
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hi hunny i joined at 1st to meet a man that was sexualy compadible with me.i had a few relasionships that the sex just wasnt there.i'm a bit of a wild woman & would like more than sex on my back once a month lol.not looking for sex with everyone just one special man.along the way tho i have made lots of great friends both guys & girls in blogland & in LesbianPersonals.i think its a great site for many different kinds of people looking for all kinds of things.the funny thing is its a sex site but its not just about sex in here. ~hugs~ crystal
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European or North African? I actually think it is easier to find a sustainable LTR on this site than on the conventional dating sites. I think people are a little more open and real here. And ...... sex isn't an issue because you can find out what your potential partners likes and dislikes are before you even meet!
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2/25/2007 6:14 am |
I wanted to meet someone who was sexually compatible with me and make a few friends along the way. I love the blogs too. Love, Light, Laughter, Leave a Legacy, Greg
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12/25/2019 5:50 am |
Whatever works......just roll with it.
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