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24 Hours  

demonicsexkitten 49F
5180 posts
1/19/2015 10:10 pm

Last Read:
2/1/2015 12:17 pm

24 Hours

I read this on somebody's profile, and thought it would be fun to read responses.

So!!! Here's the question (Revised):

If you had me all to yourself for a number of hours (originally 'locked in your bedroom 24 hours' but that's in no way realistic) and you could do whatever you wanted.... what would you do with me? Tell me here if you don't mind it being public, or message me privately if you're shy or rather it be a secret.

Those lucky few that have my phone number... you can text your answer if that makes you happier lol. I'm going offline in a moment and would love to read responses.

Totally irrelevant but the first time a guy ever asked to be tied to the foot of my bed was when I was 14. It was my step-cousin (we were majorly crushing on one another) and he was 15. AND he said it right in front of mom... tons of dirty looks, slaps upside the head and all that. Last time I had the offer was this past weekend (It was of the "I know you aren't interested in me like that, but I often fantasize...." variety). Do men really enjoy being tied up that much, or is it just "I'm in her bed! Woohoo!"



kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
1/19/2015 10:53 pm

This male does not like being tied up, ever. The last time he was locked up, he wasn't especially thrilled with that either. If you were locked up in MY
bedroom, I'd let you out. To me, handcuffs and leg chains are NOT games.

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demonicsexkitten replies on 1/19/2015 11:26 pm:
{=}
Well, I have a few "tied up" fantasies but they involve loose, easy to get out of tying. Maybe velcro. It's more the symbolism and not actual restriction. Metal handcuffs go on the wall as a shock piece of decoration.

I'm not into pain, discomfort, etc. Also I'm very safety conscious. If one person was honestly and totally restricted (handcuffs, leg chains, tied in ropes, etc) and something bad happened to the other party... or a house fire or break in or anything unexpected... in my mind there needs to be an easy-escape.

demonicsexkitten replies on 1/19/2015 11:44 pm:
And I totally forgot the other reasons for handcuffs and "locked up". I emailed you about even other reasons.

VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
1/20/2015 12:34 am

On the other hand, I might dress you in something sexy, sleek, seductively sheer and revealing, blindfold myself, hand you the feather, and see what you could do with it.

Then do my very best to get your toes definitively curled, and get you howling at the moon before I gently entered you, slowly sinking within you, letting you caress me with your inner muscles. Teasing, teasing us both into ecstasy.


demonicsexkitten replies on 1/20/2015 12:40 am:
LOL that's another one of my fantasies kinda.

You'd be so much fun blindfolded and teased with a feather.

passer58by 66M
4170 posts
1/20/2015 1:28 am

Being bound isn't something I would enjoy, however, if it was something my partner wanted to do and I trusted her, I would do it for her.


demonicsexkitten replies on 1/20/2015 6:06 am:
For me it's more of a "specific fantasy" thing. Not something I'd be into regularly. And yes, Trust is a huge part.

humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
1/20/2015 6:53 am

Well, there are a bunch of different aspects to this. The first is being locked in a room for 24 hours, and the second is being tied down and restrained for 24 hours.

Both -- although much more so with restraint -- involve trust and surrender. The surrender element is a big part of it -- people who like to present power in their daily life may enjoy relinquishing some of that power. And people who are weaker (not weak, just weaker) may find a thrill in realizing that they can drop the necessity of having their guard up by having a captor they fully trust.

That's part of it. Another part is, quite frankly, having the responsibility of being the instigator taken away from one -- the joy of being a passive, purely receptive partner in pleasure! Which, by the way, puts a huge burden on the person who isn't locked up -- that person has to keep the ebb and flow going, which can be demanding.

And yet another part of it is that, as we've seen in the concerns people raise, there is a large element of trust and risk in it, which can be very stimulating...

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demonicsexkitten replies on 1/20/2015 6:51 pm:
There is SO much to discuss about this lol. But for me... MY fantasy is just a "one time thing" (or two or three). Specific moments. Yeah: Trust is a BIGGIE.

AlvinBooth 70M
5468 posts
1/20/2015 5:59 pm

What would I do?? Hummm .... Probably pretty much the same as last time except cook something different for dinner. LOL

AB


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demonicsexkitten replies on 1/20/2015 6:50 pm:
LOL {=} Well, hopefully I don't turn on the waterworks like last time

AlvinBooth 70M
5468 posts
1/21/2015 4:44 am

Awww ..... come on ...... what I made wasn't that bad .... was it?

LOL

AB


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demonicsexkitten replies on 1/21/2015 6:11 am:
Funny Man

Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/54F

1/25/2015 9:24 pm

To be honest with you, I am not really into bondage for the sake of domination or humiliation because that to me is just too one-sided and not something that interests me at all. However, I will admit that restraining someone and/or being restrained solely for the purpose of giving up control or having the control handed to you is something that does excite me and is something that I am willing to explore with someone that I trust intimately and deeply.

So a couple weekends ago, I let my girlfriend who has some experience in this area from past relationships, tie me up and have her way with me, which is something that was very much unlike me because of my Type A personality. I wasn't nervous at all because I trusted her completely. I do have to admit that the experience was quite a bit more arousing and erotic than even I thought it would be. Now, I am looking forward to having my turn restraining her and having my way with her. It is definitely something that can be very, very erotic and sensual, if done right with someone that you trust implicitly.

Dennis (Idahonuke)
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Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/54F

1/25/2015 9:30 pm

However. to answer your original question of what I would do with you if you were "locked" in my bedroom. The first thing I would want to do with you is to get you slowly undress you without you being able to help in any way. As I removed each piece of clothing, I would be sure to kiss the newly exposed areas softly and gently reveling in the sounds your body would make from the touch of my lips all over your body.

Then I would lay you down on my massage table and using a warming lavender massage oil, give you a full body massage allowing me to intimately get to know your entire body.

After you were both very relaxed and very turned on, I would begin pleasuring you in many different ways (orally, manually, sexually).

Dennis (Idahonuke)
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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
2/1/2015 10:59 am

To be honest...

I'd have to break up the 24 hours into 24 one-hour sessions, to maximize that answer...

And, then, hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, I could be happy... but, the tying up of either partner... not so much for me... I've not even thought of that...

Perhaps, your blogs are not meant for my eyes...

Just sayin'...

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demonicsexkitten replies on 2/1/2015 12:21 pm:
The "24 hour" thing and the "tied up" thing actually bugged me when I got thinking hard about it. 24 hours is too long, and my idea of "tied up" is more of a gentle variety. Nothing hard core. I'm all about "able to get free super easy if needed".

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