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Blogs > demonicsexkitten > Life, or something like it

Longings... a beginning  

demonicsexkitten 49F
5181 posts
12/20/2014 3:42 pm

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12/23/2014 9:29 pm
Longings... a beginning

Maybe I'm strange, perhaps a relic from a time when computers and the internet weren't all the rage (according to a blog I read a few days ago).

Phone sex is apparently a thing of the past. But, if I'm stuck playing alone... hearing a lover on the other side of the phone when I play makes it so much more exciting than playing alone. Plus... my partner can slow me down. "Slow down... don't cum yet. Just enjoy the feeling, make it last" Playing totally alone... I just "get 'er done" cum for release then go to sleep.

The sound of a lovers voice... whispering to me, moaning, telling me what to do, just reacting to my words/actions/sounds is such a turn on. Whether in person or over the phone. Even texting gets to me (I have a great imagination), though actually hearing it is better, and of course in person best.

I'm longing to hear the sound of a lover growling in my ear, whispering all the things he wants to do to me, and all the things he wants me to do to him. Moaning and urging me on.

Well, there are a lot of other things I'm longing for... but this is a start.

getlucky2132 45M
4996 posts
12/20/2014 3:58 pm

 I did the phone sex thing a few time, but it was only in the past few years, and it was on a cell....my broke ass to is to broke for unlimited minutes now Though when I was a teenager, yeah I did it, it was fun....jacking off!
Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts!


demonicsexkitten replies on 12/20/2014 5:02 pm:
I don't have any teenage regrets (other than that one summer I was grounded... might change that if I could) but... so many stories I don't have because I never once touched myself until after I was 20 and had sex the first time LOL.

Cried myself to sleep from sexual frustration a few times, but never touched myself. Phone sex never crossed my mind back then.

AlvinBooth 70M
Ask me for a photo
5468 posts
12/20/2014 5:41 pm

 I'm not too good with the cyber and phone sex stuff. I'm much better at writing where I can think about it.

AB
No Bozos


demonicsexkitten replies on 12/20/2014 5:45 pm:
You're much better in person

demonicsexkitten replies on 12/20/2014 5:47 pm:
Umm... actually your writing is pretty amazing too.

getlucky2132 45M
4996 posts
12/20/2014 5:49 pm

 after I was 20 and had sex the first time

20, Seriously? How? Just interested, almost most women I've met have had sex before they were 20, I'm just interested in why? As why it'd take so long? Sorry to pry, and don't answer if you don't want.
Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts!


demonicsexkitten replies on 12/20/2014 6:36 pm:
I believed in remaining a virgin until marriage. The only reason I didn't was he'd given me a promise ring, I'd predicted him coming into my life 4 months before I met him (exact dates), I was totally head over heals in love, and he was talking about engagement. I decided it no longer mattered if we waited and, despite his respect of my wishes, I took things to the next level.

Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/54F

12/20/2014 6:31 pm

 Even with the internet and all that it brings, I think phone sex is still a GREAT thing to have with someone. Voices can be very sexy and erotic. I used to do it with a former lover of mine when I was still in the Navy and we couldn't be together and it was really amazing and a LOT of fun.

I see nothing wrong with longing for this and wanting it.

I would also love to hear some of the other things you are longing for.
Dennis (Idahonuke)
To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle:
[blog Idahonuke]


demonicsexkitten replies on 12/20/2014 6:37 pm:
You'll have to call me sometime and ask hahahaa

Seriously though... if you read through my fantasies you'll learn some of my longings.

AlvinBooth 70M
Ask me for a photo
5468 posts
12/21/2014 4:54 am

 Awww ..... Geeee .......

AB
No Bozos


humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
12/21/2014 3:31 pm

 If phone sex is a thing of the past, what on earth are the kids of today substituting for it?

In MY day...
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demonicsexkitten replies on 12/21/2014 8:10 pm:
LOL In YOUR day... what?

VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
12/21/2014 4:08 pm

 For a couple of years I was Poly, polymorphously perverse, at the Outback Verandah, with an unknown age and sex. I would be whatever a person I was texting with desired. And I so loved to be able to have what a person needed to give them ecstasy. The verandah died, I needed my sleep, and cams came in to ruin the illusions in the chat rooms ; but the four shards of my subconscious that came "alive" for me and took over the keyboard, and whose experiences I could feel are still there, along with the other personae that are just roles to play.


demonicsexkitten replies on 12/21/2014 8:09 pm:
I've been trying for 4 months or so to turn a text fantasy I made "come alive" for a friend of mine into a post on here. Just it's not MY thing. In the moment it excited me and made me cum... but a lot of it was the feeling of power knowing the reaction my words and imagination were causing.

VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
12/21/2014 4:14 pm

 They got to come out and play, I got the RT orgasms. A fair exchange.

SALLY: Fair exchange, bullshit! If I had a body I'd be out of this deal soooooo fast!


demonicsexkitten 49F
10694 posts
12/21/2014 8:08 pm

 LOL Sally amuses me


VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
12/22/2014 4:09 am

 Sally: I'm poly's card-carrying cyberslut. I have a deep and abiding interest in all things sexual, both practical and theoretical. I'm in my early thirties, brown page boy, 34B a little pendulous, not fat, but I have a little pot belly. I don't shave down south except for my bikini line. I've really worked on my PC muscles with a vaginal barbell, and I can ripple them when I'm riding a guy. My hobby is learning to give the very nicest blowjobs in magiccyberland and practicing on strangers.


MitchVMadison 57M
119 posts
12/22/2014 4:41 am

 Phone sex is a total turn on when both get into it, hearing the reactions your WORDS and emotions pour into it. I don't like it when the person on the other end is OBVIOUSLY faking it just to please the other. So it is one that I make sure this is what a partner really REALLY wants.


demonicsexkitten replies on 12/22/2014 5:41 am:
LOL... sometimes guys try cyber-sexing with me and they go about it so very wrongly and get the analytical, logical side of my brain. That treats the entire thing as a scientific discussion of theoretical bodily reactions in general. Haven't had to deal with that for a while though.

VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
12/23/2014 5:49 pm

 If Sally amuses you, you'd love Rollf!


demonicsexkitten replies on 12/23/2014 6:11 pm:
The dog on The Muppet Show?

VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
12/23/2014 9:09 pm

 No, he's a shapeshifter, He's usually a tall, blond, tanned, curly, stud muffin with a happy grin who looks like he was sent over from central casting for the beach picture. He was cursed when he was young to permanently take the shape of a golden talking Labrador retriever. Eventually he broke the curse and came into his legacy.


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