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Blast from the (near) past  

demonicsexkitten 49F
5181 posts
9/5/2014 3:27 am

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9/7/2014 8:02 pm

Blast from the (near) past


Wow.

So the mechanic I was briefly seeing earlier this year -- we kinda fell into an unintended FWB situation -- until he tripped and fell head over heels for somebody and ended our relationship by text just showed up at my door.

For those who weren't reading my blog back then: he did come sit down face to face and talk it out a week later and explained himself. Did the "man up" thing.

Since then: apparently he made a bad choice, was drawn into a fight (which he then insisted on winning and got carried away) and ended up with felony assault charges and thrown in jail. He got out today.

2am he showed up at my door to apologize, explain what happened, and to tell me that I'm an amazing woman and he really appreciated having me in his life and I'm one of, if not the, best friend he's ever had. I think the word "solid" was thrown in there too, I just can't remember how. I was fast asleep when he knocked.

I told him to leave me a Testimonial LOL... though I have enough "she's so sweet and wonderful" testimonials on my profile already, and men seem to go for the "psycho, crazies". So testimonials do me no good hahahaha. He agreed with the "men go for psycho, crazy" part, and said he'd leave a testimonial. I doubt that will happen. It was good for a laugh though. (And yes, I know... a lot of men go for sweet and wonderful, and some have had their fill of psycho crazy).

When he gets his phone back we're going to make time to go talk, catch up on news, what happened, his goals now and what he's doing to achieve them, etc. Try the "friends" thing and leave "benefits" out.

Good? Bad? Not really sure... I guess good, overall: I hugged him. And he STILL has the same effect on me. He hugs me, slides a hand down my back, and my lady parts get all warm and tingly (inside and out).

I know... I shouldn't post about people on here. It's gauche. But no names are named at least.

PS: I think I will put a reminder note on my door: "Note to self. If somebody knocks after lights go out it better be an emergency. If not: go psycho bitch on them" though suddenly I have Monty Python-esque images of failed attempts at psycho bitch running through my head.

Goodnight world as I get another 1.5 hours sleep before work.

littlejohnson616 64M
433 posts
9/5/2014 4:16 am

I'm sure your failed attempts at psycho bitch would be adorable, and possibly as funny as a Monty Python sketch. Please install video surveillance at the appropriate location.


Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
9/5/2014 5:42 am

Well, it is good to know what is going on with you. After lights out, it is too late.


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demonicsexkitten 49F
10694 posts
9/5/2014 6:10 am

    Quoting Han54boat:
    Well, it is good to know what is going on with you. After lights out, it is too late.
I'm thinking I should tell him "not after sun down" except with winter coming on... pretty soon that will be 4pm LOL.


demonicsexkitten 49F
10694 posts
9/5/2014 6:16 am

    Quoting littlejohnson616:
    I'm sure your failed attempts at psycho bitch would be adorable, and possibly as funny as a Monty Python sketch. Please install video surveillance at the appropriate location.
I've had my moments in the past, but they were a few lifetimes ago, and I'm so woefully out of practice, despite how "deserved" it might be. I'm sure I'd be quite amusing.

Speaking of surveillance... I forgot our apt complex now has surveillance cameras (too many ppl trying to break into things) - and I accidentally possibly flashed for the camera this morning lol. My shirt was inside out and none of my neighbors were awake... so I just flipped it around while standing there talking to my friend. Oops.


demonicsexkitten 49F
10694 posts
9/5/2014 6:17 am

not inside out: backwards.


sinfullychocolat 59M
2849 posts
9/5/2014 9:05 am

I'm sorry but first of all, 2am? I'm not showing up on anyone doorstep at that time. And if someone was to show up at mine, it better be a friend in need. And this may upset you but, what was he expecting? Seems to me he was looking for something, he knows you, the "hug", your reaction, you need to go psycho crazy and see what happens.

Not sure you can pull it off, I'm sure my words I just said gives you a reason to try it out on me!

Look, I'm sorry, I've been there, my case didn't end up as harsh as his, I can still go back and work in DC, but I would have shown up at a better time, but that's just me.

You are a beautiful, kind, sexy person. Just be careful!

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demonicsexkitten replies on 9/5/2014 4:55 pm:
Honestly the only reason I answered is it sounded like my apartment managers knock and I thought "Sh*t! I forgot to lock my car. Did somebody get into it and steal stuff?" AND I had no idea what time it was until after I crawled back into bed.

I will have a talk with him about time and respect. He said "I just knocked once, quietly, just in case and if you didn't answer I was leaving" but he forgot (or maybe didn't) that I'm a super light sleeper.

I dont' know what's wrong with me. It's like my "psycho bitch" button got broken or something. I've been wondering what happened to it the past two years LOL.

AlvinBooth 70M
5468 posts
9/5/2014 4:43 pm

Gotta go with SC on this. I had an ex co-worker show up at my door at 4 am as I was cooking breakfast one morning. I could tell he was on "something" and he was asking why the boss at the time fired him. That was over a year past. Of course I knew why but there was no way I was telling him. I managed to double talk my way into getting him to leave. After that I kept the 44 within reach for quite awhile.

AB


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demonicsexkitten replies on 9/5/2014 5:20 pm:
Thanks AB
No need for a .44 here. At least not for HIM. Apparently they're beefing up the security at my apartment complex... fencing the pathway along the back of the bedroom windows on my side of the complex, redoing the parking lot, there's rumor of a carport, tenant only parking and tenant only access to ensure it, and parking lot lights.

Back to the issue: I am glad to have heard from him, though a more respectful hour would have been better. And I survived my workday with only 3.5 hours sleep. When he knocked I seriously thought it was right before my alarm was to go off, and that my apartment manager was knocking to inform me somebody had been in my car and stole stuff. When I opened the door I was first confused, then relieved... then confused again.

littlejohnson616 64M
433 posts
9/6/2014 5:49 am

To be sure we have an accurate visual, the flashing was sans bra, n'est-ce pas?

My last gf was great at psycho bitch. To follow her example, think about everything in your life that's currently pissing you off, plus a few old chestnuts. Take a deep breath, and launch into a tirade implying that everything bothering you is somehow the fault of the person in front of you.

Speaking of D., we also said we were going to go back to friends without benefits, or "just friends" as we said in those days. It didn't work out. She wouldn't drop the habit of picking fights with me for no reason.

I think your present case is more precisely described as "renewal of benefits subject to negotiation".


demonicsexkitten replies on 9/6/2014 10:28 am:
Well... sadly you're possibly remotely correct. Mainly I need to get firm lines drawn and not allow myself to cross over. But... the whole warm and tingly at just a touch thing... that NEVER happens to me. I mean, with an intended sexual touch from a lover: yes. Or possible new lover. But not just a simple HUG. But knowing more about him it will be easier to set limits.

KMA5 48M
771 posts
9/6/2014 8:17 am

that is why I have the 5 ton weight set up outside my door 2AM visitors indeed


demonicsexkitten replies on 9/6/2014 10:38 am:
Yeah... I need a keeper

In my defense I really did think it was my apt mgr. She has a very distinct knock and it wasn't 100% but close enough I thought it was her. And as aforementioned.. I didn't at all realize the time.

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