I have been brutally honest about myself on here

No, I am not super huge, well endowed, but I know how to use it and I know how to please

I am a big guy, but I can do a pull-up and play hours of racquetball and run nutty 5k races,go look at my videos , so yes, I do workout and I work out a lot.

I am very active. Yes I am seeking a sexual "Partner" that is the key, Partner

I like women of different shapes and sizes, what I like most is a woman who has a good attitude about herself.

I am a single father and it makes it hard for me to get out, but for that right person, when I do get out to you, or you to me, we can make up for it

I would date or play with a true light social smoker, but if you say you are a light/social smoker and you are smoking one every hour, or even every few hours, that isn't light/social smoking

I know many people , good friends that are chain smokers, but when it comes to pleasing a woman, I want to be able to smell her and taste her.

If you smoke, look into eCigarettes,

Even if you are looking for just a friend to do something with, I love a variety of activities, I like racquetball, disc golf, biking, hiking, long drives to nowhere, open minded to all kinds of things, it's not always the activity, it is who you do it with.

Look at my pictures, the multi-colored one of me is when I couldn't lift myself off the ground, so I would swim for the special Olympics, to raise money, not to be an actual athlete.

I am a veteran and I am proud to have served in the Army during Desert Storm in 91.

Age, like body type, isn't a factor, it is all about personality, so come young, come young in mind, I am 41, but my maturity is 29...

I am discreet, I can be discreet, I don't have to be discreet myself, I would love a friend I can be seen with but if you need me to be discreet, I totally understand.

I am open minded to other peoples opinions and wants, I am willing to try most anything. Couples, singles, ect.

I work as a video producer but have never shot porn for profit, I have though helped couples enjoy being porn stars and have shot video for their use, so if you want to do that, I wont charge you.


My Ideal Person: Sex with no strings, sounds like a fantasy, there are always some sort of string attached, either you meet her drunk at a bar and regret meeting her because of the beer goggles, or you meet on here and you have a one night-er and you never hook up again, that string is the string of "wonder why she didn't call me for more " string.
So yes I am looking for strings, friendship as one, if the string plays a tune that we both like a relationship would be great, If it is just a friendly tune, friendly fun may be what we have. I am seeking someone that has a great mind, sensual and open minded, enjoys lots of snuggling, oral, kissing, tasting, etc

Somebody who understands that as men age, sometimes life is enhanced by a little blue pill, but since we are older and more experienced, we don't need a little blue pill to totally blow your mind

Now that is Honesty

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, attitude

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Hillary Clinton, i want to give oral sex to someone of power

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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