I am a 61 yo, 6'1", 195 lb male. I live north of Chicago near the Wisconsin line on the chain o lakes. I love to spend time on my boat either cruising, or just anchored out and catching some sun. After a day on the lake I like to relax in the hot tub drinking champagne and listening to relaxing music. If its summer, I'm probably on the boat. I enjoy taking cruises on the Illinois and Mississippi Rivers and Lake Michigan. I also like to play golf, go to theater, eat at fine restaurants, travel, and just have some fun. I love to make the woman I'm with smile. I don't use drugs and I prefer that those around me don't either. I know a lot of people smoke a joint now and then, and thats ok, but not the hard stuff. Also not into people who drink to the point they loose control. I want to have fun, not baby sit a drunk. A few cocktails to loosen up or get in the mood is fine, but lets keep it under control.

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My Ideal Person: I am looking for a woman that I can laugh with, love with, be happy with, and enjoy all of the wonderful things life has to offer. She should be able to carry on an intelligent conversation, know what she wants out of life, and be strong and confident. Not interested in a woman that does whatever her man wants her to do just so she can make him happy. Its a two way street ladies. She must also be sexually active. Sex is like money, its not the most important thing in life, but it is right up there in the top 2 or 3. I love just about all types of sex. Oral, intercourse, anal, maybe some light bondage, but not into things that involve what is meant to go into the toilet. There are probably a lot of things that I have never done, and I am not adverse to trying new things. If I like it we can do it again, if not, I will tell you. And the same holds true for you, if you are not into it, we won't do it. One night stands can be fun, but I would prefer to find a woman and/or couples that we can become friends and maybe develop that into an on going relationship. Also, if I meet people and we hit it off, but not sexually, I would be looking to continue a friendship.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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