I've been a few places, done a few things. I don't think of myself as being overly adventurous, but I have a habit of exposing partners to new fetishes- diversity is the spice of life, after all. I'm not a body-builder, but I'm fit and can go toe-to-toe with most folks in stamina. I'm a former martial artist, but I'm more of a tai chi sort of guy nowadays.

I also happen to be a former sex columnist (I was dating a male to female transexual at the time, which made for interesting inspiration). I think there's a journal option on here- I can't include the columns themselves, but my notes about what made a good column are probably safe to post.

Smart, fit, sensual, and very non-possessive. If this sounds interesting, let me know- I'd love to meet up.

My Ideal Person: I'm as excited about sex as anyone else, but dinner first is always nice- call me old fashioned, but I like to have at least an hour or two to get excited about a person before bedding them. It's subtle foreplay. And sometimes its not so subtle.

I'm open to a variety ages and have quirky tastes in partners.

I've been fortunate enough to meet a handful of people from here in person, so my expectations are pretty realistic. Sometimes it's appropriate to get sexy, sometimes not.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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