Hi my name is Karen i live in central Illinois,and I am looking to meet a man. A man that is attractive and kind hearted, good personality and wants to have a good time, and want more then a one night stand. I am wanting a permanant relationship. I have not dated in 8 yrs and it scares me to meet new men. I am not out to play games and i am not out just for sex. These days I have found, that the couple of men I have met off the internet, are only out for sex and once they do not get it they do not call back. . Sure money helps but love is more important!!!!!!!!!!
I am not into playing games i am a one on one person not into group sex or into women. I am into looking for a long term relationship and i have to be physically attracted to someone before i can go out with them sounds petty lame but i want what i want, and most of the time i get it. Think of me as a petty selfish bitch but i have had to struggle to much not go after what i want for a change in my life.

I have 4 children that are grown who have faimilies of there own and that are live at home with me.
I have 11 grandkids 6 girls and 5 boy. My house is paid for and has been for about 5 yrs now. It is an old house and it is not much but it is mine, needs some work but at least it is still standing. MY family comes first I have 28 yr old that is having it rough right now so him and his children are living with me until he gets on his feet, everything i do is for the kids and not myself.So it would be nice for a change to have someone else think about me, instead of me thinking of the kids all the time. I like to have back massages and like to be pamapered like I have never been pampered and I would some day like to go to art museums and see parts of the world that I have never seen in my life. I do not like a man who is controling and tell me i can't talk to other men or go out with my friends on the weekend that we choose to go out.

My Ideal Person: I am looking for a man that will except my kids along with all the baggage that i have. I am looking for a man that is tall, 5ft 10 to 6ft 4 in, brown, black or a dark blonde. (no offense guys). I am NOT attracted to redheads, bald men or pot bellied men. But i guess i could get adjusted to the redhair and the bald men but if your belly is so big you can't see your shoes then i don't know. Call me picky but i know what i want. I am not twiggy or runway model but i don't look like i am pregant either as some of you guys say i have a little extra padding and it is in my rearend not that much but i think and have been told that i still look good when i critisize myself and i have been told out of us five sister i am the best looking one out of us.I am looking for a senstive, kind, caring, giving man that is not afraid to show his feelings or afraid to talk about things. I am a social drinker and i do not smoke and i prefer my man to be the same way or to at least respect me enough not to smoke in my home if i asked him not to. I like for a man not to be afraid to go places and do things, to be spontaneous. I like to go camping fishing and do things that i have never done before within reason. I like a man that is not afraid to get dirty and can be a handy man around the house someone who is a bluejeans and t-shirt person at home and that can feel comfortable in a suit and dressup when we go out. He doesnt' have to be rich just comfortable in his means, and not afraid to spend money on me since i don't have an abundance of that i am one of the unfortunate who works hard for a mere pittance. Oh and to let all you people know i am not into groupie sex and 3 somes or women or i am not bi and i am not prejuduice but i do not date black men nor married me these need not apply and please send pic to me thank you. And sorry if you feel offended.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Neil Diamond, AC/DCA AND MANY MORE

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I would love to make love in the rain in my local park or maybe
in a park somewhere, whether it is raining or not or when
there is a full moon on a nice night.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, giving oral if i am not asked, lots of foreplay, love my breast

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
There have been so many in the past one of them is Patrick
Swayze when he was younger when he played in Dirty Dancing.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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