Who am I? I'm a conscientious lover; a protector and a guardian by nature and trade. I'm a Harley-rider, sky-diver, self-employed business owner. I've a diverse background in the military and martial arts and security. I'm an instructor of My trades: a consultant and teacher.

I have been on Alt since it's inception and in this "lifestyle" long before I knew it was a lifestyle. At 16, I was considered extremely kinky...even "sick" by some. But you are already aware of vanilla opinions. While experiencing this lifestyle, while in chat rooms, munches, public or private play parties, I do follow and expect others to follow protocols to at least respectable degree. After all, trust and respect are the pillars of this lifestyle.

Note: I'm NOT into maiming, blood, scat, drugs, drunks, other men or children. Family is first, safety is always. With that said....

I'm a very sensitive and conscientious Lover into exquisitely erotic sensation play. Each increment of arousal should be an entire fulfilling sexual experience unto itself. W/we should "experience" each other. On the Dom side, I will arouse your passion at My whim, and with-hold your pleasure so that it may be even more intense when (if?) I finally allow you to have it. all "play" will be incrementally increased in intensity for the most delicious experiences. I'm sure novices will greatly appreciate that.

I'm open-minded, caring and love to tease. I enjoy using your toys on you. I will tease you; erotically & exquisitely torture you till you beg for sexual release. It will be denied, before it is applied. I view a woman's body like an orchestra piano: Playing all the right keys makes beautiful music... music that builds S-L-O-W-L-Y to a thunderous crescendo. Spankings, floggings, paddling, light to imaginative bondage, blindfolds, handcuffs, and other forms of discipline await the playful sub/slave who wishes to explore her limits...explore the deeper space.

Last, but not least: I am a Man of Honor and Integrity. I respect your public, private and vanilla life and you must respect Mine as well as others in this lifestyle. I am married, but am fulfilled within this lifestyle. I have the full support of My wife, who leads her own life as well. For those interested in Me, I will discuss the details, openly. For those who have issues with this, please move on and good luck in whatever you're searching for.

My Ideal Person: I have experienced LTRs and LDRs as well. So, currently, I'm seeking sub or slave for very sensual, erotic encounters. A few "friends" desiring the sensual trailing of fingers, erotic words whispered in your ear, explorative and fun play. Perhaps the lick of the flogger followed by the wheel of Whartenberg...the feeling of fur and the lightness of a feather. I seek a few quality friends with whom I can "feel" a connection with.

Am comfortable with exhibitionism (not looking to get arrested, though), but it's not necessary (well, I do expect you naked while in private for My viewing pleasure!). I love to watch you pleasure yourself, again at my direction, prior to upping the sensation play. I reciprocate for an appreciative partner.

I want to laugh with you (OK, I have wry dry humor most of the time), go out and enjoy a variety of culture (dinner and a movie, the arts, and unusual events). I want good company (so should you!). That's aside from all the exploration from the lightest touch to the explosions like a star gone nova.

you should be a sub/slave who is adventurous, and wishing to explore your deepest, darkest, most decadent desires. Be willing to explore your limits and articulate your every fantasy. You must be open-minded and know that your true inner freedom lies in your submission. Will play with a lesbian or straight couple.

you should love at least one of these activities to it's fullest:

Love providing oral so much that you can cum while doing so.

Love to use your hands (I LOVE using Mine!).

Love having Me use what many have called My "Magic Fingers."

Love being "felt up." I just can't get away from being 16 at the movies. Or dinner. Or driving. Or...?

Open communication (and a sense of humor) is an absolute necessity!

I'm "Sensually" Dominant, so playful OTK is alright with me but not necessary.
A typical date: We're going out to a nice dinner and a movie. You're dressed nice, but in such a way that I can access your most secret places at my whim. Throughout the evening, I regularly "check" you to make sure you're moist. I want to keep you in a constant state of arousal. Erotic teasing is my forte. We'll see how long you can last before you scream!

Thank you for reading My profile... If you're interested in anything I've typed, have questions because you're interested, please contact Me. I'm waiting for your response with bated breath... and flogger in hand (j/k... maybe ). *Smiles...

OH yeah.. we can have non-typical dates, too.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A store dressing room, Airplane, Movie theatre, moving vehicle, the beach, remote wilde

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, certain "chemistry"

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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