My Introduction Title/Headline is usually a song lyric, so please don't take it too seriously

I enjoy music, hiking, drawing, reading, computers and, of course, really good sex. I like small groups of good friends as opposed to crowds. I am perfectly content to spend time amusing myself.

I have a very busy professional job and must be discreet. Due to the fact that Oahu is really a very small space and you run into a lot of people, I will share more pictures when I'm sure who I am dealing with.

Please do not send me close up pictures of your cock or pictures of you having sex with others. I do not find this erotic or even attractive. If you want to send nude pictures, please make sure it is a full body shot (with or without face).

My Ideal Person: Intelligence and a good sense of humor is a must...I prefer someone who is not just trolling for sex. I am not looking for husband or boyfriend, but I am not interested in a one night stand either. I am looking for someone to have fun and play around with, someone with whom I can develop an ongoing reciprocal sexual relationship. I guess that means I'm looking for a FWB. If this is not what you are looking for, no sweat, but please, do not contact me.

My preference is for a man who likes to spent hours in bed as opposed to a hit and run kinda guy Yeah, you know who you are...

I am not interested in cybersex, or webcams, trading erotic stories or joining networks. I am only interested in meeting someone for real. None of this pretend stuff.

As for physical type, I'm a bit flexible, but I prefer non-smokers, in fairly good shape (toned and fit, but not muscle bound) and with a minimum of body hair. I have a thing for Asian men, but this is not a hard and fast rule.


I am not a tourist destination or an hook-r.
I am only looking for men who live in Hawaii. I have no interest in meeting strange men in hotel rooms. Please do not ask me to meet you unless you live here. You are not the exception to this rule.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Rolling Stones, Eric Clapton, Warren Zevon, B.B. King,
Elvis Costello, Flying Burritto Brothers,

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A remote wilderness spot, on a couch, standing up

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No, I would rather have a real person that a fake celebrity.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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