I am an old soilder who still has much living to do.I am told that i have mellowed since my retirement; which i guess is true since my hair is now worn long and gray ( SOME SAY SILVER!) I have been seperated and finally devorced now for several years and now feel comfortable reentering the dating world without a ton of old bagage. I am not real keen on large groups and much perfer small groups or better yet 1 on 1 interaction. As you might expect honesty and trust are high on my list Please understond though that while i would welcome a long term relationship it is not something that tops my current wants.I love most things outdoors; fishing Valdiez a couple times a year is a must for me. Riding n' rebuilding all types of motorcycles is a life long love.When inside reading, watching movies (i like most all types) and just talking/ listening or shareing quite time togather.

My Ideal Person: I truely believe that physical contact is oneof the most wonderful experences a man and woman can ever share. To touch and be touched in return : to hold and be held ; to bring and recieve satisfaction all are gifts that ahe best shared. To lounge togather intertwined on a couch while laughing at a silly movie or crying togather with all the sad parts can and should be a important part of a healthy sexual incounter. There are however,surely times that raw passionate sex is simply great! :but even that improves when ideas can be offered and exchanged.Knowing yourself and your partner(s) comes before anything else however. I f we can't be ourselves and confortable togather outside an intimate relationship then i feel there would be little or no hance of hitting it off in one.I wanta partner(s) or man/ woman couple to want to spend time with me reguardless of the activity. I am nonjudgemental and look for that quality in others. I am non-clingy and would certanly hope that would be the case with those i meet. I certenly am open to new ideas and suggestions and conside give and take a healthy part of friendship. About the only thing that i am not, nor will ever be open to is any and all trpes of hurting; be physical,mental or speritual. Life is too short and there are enough hard knocks without adding others. I respict myself and others too much to engage in such things.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
bb king, clapton, all old time blues singers

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Sorry but my celeb is and will continue to be the special lady i am searching for. once we find oneanother we will create our own fantasies.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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