Will try just about anything once or twice to be sure. Divorced for awhile, looking for a LTR, but no vanilla relationships. Scuba, Sail, golf, hang-out, movies, cooking, dining out are all things I enjoy. I really like to try new sexual pleasures and aim to please.

My Ideal Person: Looking for a special someone for friendship and LTR. Should be low maintenance and self confident. Loves dining out and has a gourmet appetite. Appreciates a good steak or homemade cioppino. I am attracted to a wild side with a adventurous and spontaneous spirit. Must like dogs, does not get seasick and likes to travel.

In my middle age, I have found that there are four requirements to successful relationships. 1. Physical Attraction: I know that this sounds superficial, but it is not. You have to be attracted to the other person to get a good look. I am not a Brad Pitt type, more of a Bruce Willis. However, I am height weight proportionate. If you are looking for a pretty boy, I am not it. 2. Chemistry: I believe you can know if the other person is a fit in the first fifteen minutes of meeting them. This has other names eg. soulmates, karma etc. 3. Values: I am a Christian, you are a Hari Krishna...not going to work. I like to eat a good steak, you are a vegetarian that doesnt believe we should eat mammals..nope. You think bathing every other day is okay, yukk!. 4. Baggage: I have alot of experience here. My ex-wife invited her first two ex-husbands to a Christmas party..not good sign. I dated a woman who was sexually abused as a child and did not like sex. Not going to work. (I felt sorry for her, but I could never deal with this as a significant other and I am not a shrink). Prescription drug abuse for depression. Wrong again.

I believe that the most important aspect of a successful relationship at this stage in life is to be the best of friends without the need to change anything about each other.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Leather, Latex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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