Hi everyone!

I am looking for a playmate. This could be a woman or a masculine gay or bisexual male or couple (even better if the male is bi...I can dream hehehe) or a hermaphrodite (ultimate fantasy for me). I am married and in an open relationship...shifting over towards polyamory. I am very adventurous and will try anything several times...more if I like it. I am bisexual, but I am not really into the whole top/bottom thing as i like it all...why leave part of it out?

I have quite a few extra pounds (want some? I will be glad to share hehehe sharing is so much fun you know *weg*). Mainly I want you to be open minded and adventurous. Friendship is good, but am not looking for relationships other than a friends with benefits situation (preferred) unles you are able to do a ployamorus relationship...then we can go beyond FWB. I do have children, so I have to work around that. My wife works nights, so I am fairly free after 10 to host. I am usually home with my daughter, so I can't go anywhere unless I have someone to watch her. We can play here, but it would have to be later at night (after 10) after my child is asleep. I am married, but I do have permission to play (and yes, you can confirm that with my wife if you want to). Otherwise, get in touch and lets have fun!!! It has been a long time since I have had the opportunity to play with a guy and I am really looking for someone local (no more that 15-20 miles away...I don't want to have an all day road trip to get to you or for you to get with me).

I live in an unincorporated area on a large plot of land, so I do like to have a nice fire going outside when it is nice out. We could chill out in the back yard and have a few drinks (we conveniently have a liquor store about a block away too hehehe). We could take inside, or take advantage of the privacy and just stay out by the fire (my preference hehe) I just like to have some fun times creating as much pleasure as I can. Nothing serious...just 2 (or more) people enjoying each others bodies.

So get in touch and lets chat. I would like to chat and then meet for coffee somewhere and see if there is any chemistry. After that, if all are willing, the sky is the limit. I really look forward to meeting some folks here and have a great time...even if we don't click sexually...hopefully I will have at least made some new friends.

UPDATE: I am still in Lisle, but will be moving to Yorkville by October 1st.

My Ideal Person: Intelligence mainly. Good looks wouldn't hurt either. Mainly someone who is open and playful and willing to explore and try things new (or do things you have already done and want to do again (and again) )

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Disturbed, Godsmack, Korn, Led Zepplin, Jimi Hendrix,
System of a Down, Tea Party, Doors

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My fantasy, or should I say the only one that hasn't
become a reality...yet...is to be 69'ing with a woman
while a guy penetrates my ass

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub, any outdoor setting

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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