Update Sept 2011. My life has changed a lot and I am still looking for a very sexual woman, but I am also looking for a woman to spend time with. Most of my free time is on the weekends. I would like to find someone to spend some weekends with. Maybe relaxing at home or taking short trips to beautiful places. I am not looking for a serious relationship right now, but I am open to it if things go that way. Please don't hesitate to try. You never know what can happen.

First of all, I don't like to play games. I am a real man looking for a real woman. I am up front about who I am and what I am looking for and I hope you will do the same. My wife passed away in January 2011. She was not into sex and I feel that I have missed out on a lot of pleasure. I am a very sexual and I think sensuous man. I am fun to be with and can hold a real conversation. I want to explore all the things I haven't done such as possibly threesomes and see what swingers clubs are all about. I love a lot of foreplay meaning kissing, caressing, and touching. Sex should not take 10 minutes. I just plain love sex and everything that goes with it. I am especially oral both giving and receiving. I am not looking for one night stands. I would like to find a friend with benefits on a regular basis. I am not ready for a deep relationship, but I wouldn't turn it down if it happens. I truly hope there is such a woman out there.

My Ideal Person: I am looking for a woman to share my passions with. I would like to find a woman who is uninhibited sexually. I am not into rough sex. I am a very oral person who loves touching, caressing and kissing. I am really looking for one woman to enjoy the incredible sexual heights we could reach. I am not concerned with looks and body type as I believe most of sex is in the mind. I would like it to be more than a one night stand, but we have to start somewhere. A perfect Friday night would be to start out at a quiet, romantic restaurant and just enjoy each other company. If there is chemistry, the rest will take care of itself. I hope to hear from you.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Finding a sexual partner that has my high sexual appetite.
A woman who thinks 90% of the time about our next sexual encounter.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No. Not into celebrities.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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