Hello. I'm Jay, a 60 yr old straight, black male in Philadelphia, PA. I'm attached, but my partner is not into sex these days, so I am looking for someone with whom I can share some erotic times. I'm looking for couples or women for discreet encounters, cyber and possibly some group play. My wife allows the frequent chatting and the occasional discreet encounter so long as it does not blow back on her. So my being married would not be a problem unless you are someone looking for a LTR. I am not planning on leaving my wife.

About me- I'm 5'10", straight, educated, handsome, fairly well-endowed with 7 3/4 inches, and very erotic. I'm also educated, intelligent, and capable of good conversation as well as good sex. I love movies, books, the outdoors and food. If you are looking for erotic chat, I love it and am quite good at it. Descriptive, patient, and intense-I love bringing a woman to pleasure with my words. I am also interested in threesomes where either the man watches or he joins in providing attention to the woman. I have done and love both. Sexually, I am a intensely sensual person; I love kissing, touching and pleasing, oral, doggie, and much more. I enjoy giving pleasure as much as I do receiving it, and I have a very talented and tireless tongue. If you are interested in erotic chat, I can describe each of these activities in detailed, powerful terms and images. If the woman likes it, I can also be quite aggressive. I love long lasting sessions with intense foreplay,a lot of "play" and some luscious "afterplay."

I have pics in my profile. Please check it out and e-mail me at LesbianPersonals if you might be interested. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I will answer honestly. Interested? Curious? Write me. Let's see what is possible. And Standard Members can contact me.

One other thing-as my profile makes clear, I value being upfront and honest, and I am polite in my dealings with people. I am not a game player, and I hope not to be subjected to games on your part. Unfortunately, I have recently run across several people here who have made dates to meet and not shown up without telling me, or people who expressed great interest in meeting and then just disappeared. Changing one's mind does not bother me, but being rude and inconsiderate does. I would hope that if we make plans to talk or get together and things change that you show me the respect of letting me know in advance. I would do the same for you. Yes-I know this is mostly a sex site, but it is still peopled by, well, people. And there is a minimal amount of politeness due people simply because we are all human. I hope that if we have contact you keep that in mind. I know I will.

My Ideal Person: I am looking for a single/married woman and/or a couple into MFM threesomes, up to the age of 70 or so. I am up for a discreet sexual relationship - a friendship with the added benefit of hot, fun times. I am also looking for someone who wants erotic chats-I am quite good at them, and can have sensual and sexual chats, or I can take the role of a dom. Should be sensual and into long lasting erotic sessions. Looks are not as important as are intelligence, personality and sensuality. Race is not an issue.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Muddy Waters, Duke Ellington, Miles Davis, Joe Louis Wakker,
James Cotton, Prince, Geoff Muldaur; ,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Threesomes, threesomes or groups

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Barbara Hershey-mature, attractive and pretty but looks
like a real woman. Great smile and great eyes. Tina Turner
has turned me on since I was ten..lol...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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