You're at Adult Friend Finders for the same reason as I am. We are all here looking to fulfill needs, desires, or curiosities that are not being met in our present lives. I'm a happy, positive, and self-satisfied person, but one who is always looking for new possibilities in life, a life that has already been full of plenty of exciting and interesting experiences. Still, there is a missing element in my life that draws me here to explore further.

I'm looking for someone like I am: a gentle soul with a gentle touch. This person should also be fit, feminine, and in my age range or somewhat younger.

I'm a very truthful man, perhaps truthful to a fault. So I'll be truthful here right from the start. I'm not ashamed of the truth, nor should I be embarrassed by it. I've been married since my twenties, and never during my marriage have I strayed from my wife. I, like so many men and women, have nearly no physical intimacy in marriage (over a year). Tell me I'm not like most of you married individuals out there! We know it's the very sad truth.

The yearnings which so many others and I feel are not to leave our spouses. It's taken years of pondering my fate and finally it has taken the internet to unlock this outlet, this hope to connect with another kindred spirit. Perhaps we become too comfortable with our spouses and life-situations, or other issues such as work, finances, and family intervene. Some of us may have a spouse who is honestly uninterested in intimacy, or even unable or unwilling to respond in this way. That's my situation. We share so much in common as well as a long history, but neither counseling nor prescriptions have been successful in restoring the passion that once was. Lacking this important ingredient in life is launching me off cautiously to seek a person also looking to find that elusive element missing in our lives.

It's my hope to find a "significant other," to bring some passion into both of our lives. Maybe we could develop into lovers, friends with benefits, or into commitment-free, discreet encounters with no strings attached other than to add spice to both of our lives. I am not looking to complicate my life, nor yours. Hugging and kissing, touching and teasing, and most of all skin-to-skin contact are all such an exciting part of life, to feel the passion rise from bodies entwined together.

Discretion and trust would open this pathway to celebrate something very special together, to add excitement to your life and to mine. You, like I, would have to be very respectful of one another. We would have to be trusting, extremely clean, disease and drug free, and to stay within our mutual agreement not to stray.

My major concerns are discretion and health. This is important to keep my marriage healthy and loving. I'm no game player, just a very honest man seeking safe intimacy and human enjoyment.

My availability is quite flexible during the week... morning until night, although the weekend can be a bit problematic, especially at night. Hoping to find a sincere person with the time, interest, and these high standards to connect in a very special way. I'll patiently wait for this person who needs me as I need her.

My Ideal Person: Seeking a "significant other" to bring some passion into my life and yours. Maybe we could develop into lovers, friends with benefits, or into commitment-free, discreet encounters with no strings attached other than to add spice to both of our lives. My prospective "significant other" should be feminine and an attractive partner to not only share intimate contact, but to become a kindred spirit.

Hugging and kissing, touching and teasing, and most of all skin-to-skin contact are all such an exciting part of life, to feel the passion rise from bodies entwined together. Let's give ourselves the chance to experience life as it should be lived, to its fullest.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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