Educated professional, adventurous and passionate. I am looking for an intimate companion that I can trust and share time with in and out of the bedroom. Someone who is actually interested in friendship and willing to make the time. If it works into a long-term relationship, I'm very open to that.

Like me, he'll have other interests and obligations so time apart will be just as important as time together. Although I like to think that I'm pretty independent, I've also learned that I need someone who's looking out for me and I hope I'd be able to do the same.

Yes, I like sex and I do have some goals in that area. But, for me, there has to be more to the friendship than sex. I have the time and interest to explore outdoor activities with a partner when we can both get away - golfing, scuba, hiking, biking, horseback riding, kayaking, boating, etc.

I prefer leading an active lifestyle. If you feel you don't have the time to spend doing things with a woman outside the bedroom too, then no need to read this profile any further.

As you can see from my photos, I have a real woman's body and I am not Barbie. I'm working hard to meet some fitness goals and stay fit for life. I do want someone who cares about their looks and is working on staying fit for the long term as well.

NOTICE to all institutions using this or any internet site or its associated sites for projects: You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.

My Ideal Person: My ideal lover would be single... a well-rounded gentleman outside the bedroom, but sexually confident and willing to explore in an active intimate relationship. Someone who is well educated and well traveled. Clever, mature, self-confident, witty sense of humor, and a good conversationalist.... sexy and playful. Someone who lives close enough to me or is willing to travel to spend time over weekends and week nights after work to be together. Someone between the ages of 45-55. Someone who is as supportive of me, as I can be to him.

If you decide to contact me and want me to respond, please send a face photo with your initial email and have more than a sentence posted on your profile. Mutual attraction and chemistry are everything. Thanks.

No married or attached men period! Also, I am not a Cougar.. lol. If you are in your 20s, I'm incredibly flattered that you've contacted me (actually, you made my day), but I can't do that -- I have kids practically your age. I'm not interested in couples either and I'm not interested in having sex with a woman, so please stop asking.

I'm only interested in single men, close to my age so we can talk about life experiences, who are open to the possibility of spending more time together if all goes well.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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