My interests cover the gamut. I am always optimistic and see life as a glass that is half full and filling.

I consider myself a renaissance man with multiple interests. I have been a writer, a publisher, a public relations director, a professional musician, a salesman, a corporate president, a builder, a designer, a graphic artist, a retail store manager... among other things. In my life, I have personally known people who lived under bridges, hauled garbage for a living, sat in the boardrooms of major corporations, and occupied the Oval Office... and I have been comfortable with all of them. I got to know these people by being willing to approach anybody and to stand up and speak my mind. I guess you could say I am not shy. I was the guy in high school my fellow students always told to stand up and ask the questions. I always sat in front so I could.

Currently I am a computer and business consultant with my own small business, and also a medical office manager.

I am the founder of a charity Food Pantry, its past director for the first 16 years of its 25 years. I've been the president of another local food charity, and was honored as it's modern "founder" for putting it on the road to the future for building its warehouses and reinvigorating its board. I have been a Bass Section Leader in a large chorale, and performed in Carnegie Hall for the Hall's 100th Anniversary Concert (How DO you get there? "Practice, practice, practice!"). When I was in college, I was a projectionist and managed the theater where later (or earlier, depending on your fictional perspective) Christopher Reeve would fall in love with Jane Seymour in the movie "Somewhere in Time," and, in fact, was in charge of the movie sound stage where the film was shot. I once owned a world famous bunny rabbit (ask me). And, yes, that is me in the picture (taken almost 40 years ago) in front of a 1929 Cadillac holding a real Thompson submachine gun! Would you believe it was a picture taken for a Christmas card for the shop where I kicked Lynette "Squeaky" Fromme out of almost every week in the months before she attempted to assassinate President Ford? Yup, true!

My life has not always been ups, there have been downs as well. A year ago it was really down. Now it's back on the way up again. What it has been is always interesting.

I have been told I am a great lover... I love to make a woman orgasm; it is the greatest turn-on I can think of. It's just downright fun! I seek a long term relationship... a sexual relationship with a woman seeking the same thing who would also like to go to movies, to lunches, to museums, to plays, to concerts, and on long drives just to see what's on the other side of the hill, to have fun together, even if it's just another hill. I had that for twenty years. I want it again.

My Ideal Person: This section is supposed to be about what I expect in my perfect match. Is perfection achievable? If my partner were perfect I'd be afraid to touch her, for fear I'd break her! I think we are all works in progress. if we achieve perfection what purpose in life is left to achieve? We might as well sit down and die.

I am not perfect, far from it, and am certainly I'm not an Adonis, so I don't expect my lover to be Venus or to be perfect either. We are all human with human foibles, who will make mistakes, and sometimes fall flat on our faces. The best we can do is be human and pick ourselves up and laugh. Sometimes it will be a chuckle, and sometimes a good belly laugh. Laugh with me and we will have fun and enjoy life. Sex should never be serious. It should always be fun for both participants. If it isn't fun, what in the heck are all we doing here?

I want a woman who isn't afraid to go for what she wants. Who refuses to settle for what is, simply because it is. I want a lover who is fearless in bed, a lady in public, and a flirt when only I am looking. She should be unafraid to surprise me by occasionally not wearing underwear in unusual circumstances and flashing me when I least expect it. I want a woman who knows when to call me just to tell me she wants me... I want a woman who knows her own mind, and who has the fortitude to disagree with me, when I need disagreeing with... and the genius to know when that's the case.

I want a woman who will go to the movies with me and want me to hold her, keeping her safe during the scary scenes, laugh with her during the funny ones, cry with her during the weepy ones, and get up and walk out with her when the movie deserves getting up and walking out. I want a woman who loves going on drives in the country just to see what's over the next hill even if it's just another hill... but who can appreciate fine art, music, and plays as well.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
I have no "favorite" I'm eclectic about
it.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Step Father/Step Daughter relationship... Late teen
step-daughter seduces step dad while watching TV...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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