Just looking for good company and possibly great sex with the right lady if everything feels right to all parties, whether as a single or couple. I really do not want a relationship, but if it happens then it is meant to be. Tough being single in IF with few prospects that just want to have a good time and comfortable with their sexuality. I want a lady or couple who can be DISCRETE as I am an educated professional and I will do the same.

What am I?
- I've been called a Gentleman on my single cruises.
- I respect each person's right to privacy and will be discrete.
- I enjoy being single, but the heart has a mind of it's own.
- I have many friends all over the country from my singles events, but relatively few here.
- I like to entertain when I go out and can really sing at karaoke (aka my occasional Fridays at the Bonneville).
- I volunteer for many events.
- I give a good massage, but don't expect to be relaxed when done? I have several types of oils and many other items, is the lady so chooses.

What am I NOT?
- I am not bi-curious. Sorry guys.
- I am not tall, nor short. Just your average guy.
- I am not a "couple" nor do I have any GFs anywhere local I could bring. I do see ladies whenever I attend a singles reunion or travel on business, but go home alone.
- I am not your super endowed superman, but I do not get many complaints.

I enjoy my life being single, but that one big hole I cannot fill is in the bedroom on any frequency. I have lots of lady friends throughout the country due to my singles travels, but nothing local and they are just friends. Finding interesting people willing to share their time would be great. I am a busy person and do travel almost monthly.

From my photos I won't show public nudity, even though I have done so in St. Marteen's. I think you will see all you want if the chemistry is right. I will consider doing so privately. As for profiles, IF YOU DO NOT POST OR ARE WILLING TO SEND/SHARE A PHOTO, DO NOT EXPECT A REPLY.

I am a very clean person, hygenically and disease-free. I have never contacted any communicable diseases and would not be comfortable with a partner that is also not clean and disease free.

AGAIN, I expect discretion.

My Ideal Person: I am looking for a lady or couple that would be willing to meet in a public place and let's see if the chemistry is there. I frequent local wine bars, restaurants, and occasionally a coffee shop on most weekends when I am not traveling. I go out almost every Friday and some Saturdays. During the week is tougher due to work. If the attraction is there, nature will determine where we go from there.

I would like a lady who is willing to be pleased, even at my expense, doesn't mind a toy or two coming into play (she can choose from small to laughable large), and enjoys all forms of sex. My home has a very fully stocked bar, even though I drink very little, but do enjoy a glass (or two) of red wines and I love bourbons/whiskeys should someday we end up here. Sorry, no malt Scotch or Gin for me.

Am I in anyone's ballpark?

PS: What the heck are "alternative activities"?

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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