I'm a laid back kind of Brother with a sly smile & a bit of wit to go with it. Yes, I like to dress up with style. When I dress down I'm likely to still have on a belt, & shirt tucked in. Its just the kinda guy I am. My style is just a part of the fabric of me. I'm partial to the details.

I like to spend time with someone who's comfortable with themselves, & particular about whom they share their time with. I like to be with someone who values themself, but not stuck-up on themselves. I like the idea of give-n-take, the sharing back-n-forth is what makes me smile.

I am not looking for a slut. I don’t want to degrade or put anyone down. I don’t want to do it, don’t want it done to me. Its just not me.

I don’t want to get into a lot of drama or hype. I don’t plan on giving or causing any either. Its just not me.

By the way, thanks for stopping by & checking me out!

My Ideal Person: ...if only it was as simple that...

There's no cookie-cutter response here. Its not that simple. I’m attracted to a package, the whole person. For every body size, type, personality, & hair color I would say I've been attracted to; I'm able to give you an example in my life where I've come across someone that's made me smile & put them into my "OK" zone. So, I won't even go there. If you think there may be some interest, let's chat about it & see. I'm ok with that. I could be a great start.

I do like substance, life, & experences. There is an attraction somewhere between those we have had, are presently in the midst of, & those we still desire. Yes, desire can be a powerful attraction.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
The Whispers; Emotions; O'Jays; Earth, Wind, & Fire; Maze, & Luthur. That kind stuff.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'll get back to you on this one... It evolves around me & thee. It developes based upon the situation & reactions to what happens between us. Therefore, it would never be the same twice. lol

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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